{"status":true,"post":{"id":34635,"user_id":3,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2022-10-24 21:41:29","created_at":"2022-09-01T21:00:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2022-10-24T18:41:29.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":34635,"is_featured":0,"title":"Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

\u201cAnlayanla ta\u015f ta\u015f\u0131, anlamayanla bal yeme.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/span>
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Atas\u00f6z\u00fc<\/em><\/strong><\/span>
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\u0130\u015fimiz, sosyal hayat\u0131m\u0131z ve ailemizde, birbirimizle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 veya \u00e7oklu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan irili ufakl\u0131 anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n sebebi; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 a\u00e7\u0131k ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r \u015fekilde konu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan olsa gerektir.<\/span>
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Belki de bu nedenle teknoloji, ileti\u015fim ve ili\u015fkilerimize s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z, sorumsuz ve kolayca girebiliyor; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 kurmam\u0131z gereken m\u00fcnasebetlerimiz, teknolojinin esaretine kurban veriliyor.<\/span>
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Bu hal, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kolayl\u0131klar ad\u0131na hepimizin ho\u015funa gidebilir, memnuniyet verici olabilir, \u015fimdilik kazan\u00e7 gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckebilir lakin uzun vadede insani melekelerimizi zay\u0131flataca\u011f\u0131 ve kay\u0131plara sebep olaca\u011f\u0131 da malumdur.<\/span>
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Tabii bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, i\u015f ve sosyal hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran teknolojiye kar\u015f\u0131 bir duru\u015f sergilenmiyor. Yaln\u0131z teknolojiyi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n her an\u0131na raptedip dengeye dikkat etmedi\u011fimizde, ailemizden ba\u015flayarak, i\u015f ve sosyal ortamlarda insanlardan k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor ve bir an \u00f6nce cep telefonumuza yahut bilgisayar\u0131m\u0131za sar\u0131l\u0131yoruz.<\/span>
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\u0130\u015fte bu \u00f6nemli ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fimizde, \u00f6nce kendimizden kay\u0131plar meydana gelece\u011fi gibi sorumlulu\u011fumuz alt\u0131nda bulunan ailemiz, i\u015fimiz ve sosyal \u00e7evremizde, istenmeyen durumlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabiliyor. Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline gelen g\u00fcnl\u00fck \u015fik\u00e2yetlerimizin temeline bu zaviyeden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 fark edece\u011fiz.<\/span>
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Meseleyi belki eksik anlatm\u0131\u015f olma ihtimaline kar\u015f\u0131 bir \u00f6rnekle g\u00fc\u00e7lendirelim. Her ailede olmayabilir fakat evlerimizin pek \u00e7o\u011funda, aile \u00fcyeleri bir araya gelince, toplam yar\u0131m saat dahi birbirimizle hemhal olam\u0131yor, aile ortam\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, kim oldu\u011funu bilmedi\u011fimiz ki\u015filere tercih edebiliyoruz.<\/span>
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Neyse, s\u00f6z\u00fc teknoloji \u00fczerinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rarak, teknolojinin h\u0131z ve hazz\u0131n\u0131n, insani melekelerimizi etkisi alt\u0131na almamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131p; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 m\u00fclakat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrelim. <\/span>
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc l\u00fczumundan fazla s\u00f6z meram\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r, da\u011f\u0131lan s\u00f6z yerini bulmad\u0131k\u00e7a uzar da uzar ve nereye varaca\u011f\u0131 belli olmaz. En iyisi s\u00fck\u00fbt istasyonunda durup, mevzumuza ge\u00e7elim.<\/span>
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Millet olarak s\u00f6zl\u00fc k\u00fclt\u00fcr toplumu olmam\u0131z hasebiyle d\u00fcnya halklar\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde en \u00e7ok atas\u00f6zleri bizim dilimizde mevcuttur. Bu sebeple, insan ve insan halleri, nesilden nesile gelen yadig\u00e2r tembihlerimizde, nasihatlerimizde, \u00f6vg\u00fc yahut yergilerimizde yol g\u00f6sterici vazifesi g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. <\/span>
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Eskiler der ki, \u201c\u0130nsan s\u00f6z\u00fc ile tart\u0131l\u0131r, hal ve hareketleriyle tart\u0131daki \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc belirlenir, ahlak\u0131 ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle de\u011fer kazan\u0131r.\u201d Bu manada insan\u0131n kendisini tan\u0131mas\u0131 beklenir. Kendisini tan\u0131yan kimseler ise sayg\u0131 duyulan bir ki\u015fili\u011fin ve karakterin sahibidirler. <\/span>
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Ki\u015fi kendisini tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir problemi \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f olur. Kendini bilme \u015fuuru ile hareket edenler; i\u015f, sosyal ve aile hayat\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur ve takdir edilirler. Tabii bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, i\u00e7 ve d\u0131\u015f etkenlerden gelebilecek engelleri de hesap etmek laz\u0131m.<\/span>
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\u0130\u00e7 ve d\u0131\u015f etkenler, insanda umuda zarar verir. Oysa insan bir umut hazinesidir. Kendimize inanarak ve g\u00fcvenerek bu hazinenin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, a\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7bir engel yoktur. Engeller, umut hazinesinin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bize g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kuvvet veren yard\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerimizdeki ba\u015far\u0131m\u0131z, kendimizi tan\u0131mak ve sorumluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sahiplenmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Bundan sonras\u0131 ise s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze ve i\u015fimize dikkat, \u00e7aba, istek ve \u00fcslup meselesidir. \u2018Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 ileti\u015fim, samimi ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/span>
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Has\u0131l\u0131kelam irfan ehilleri buyururlar ki:<\/span>
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\u0130nsana, \u2018Kendini bil\u2019 denilmesi, yaln\u0131z gururunu k\u0131rmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ki\u015finin de\u011ferini bilmesi i\u00e7indir. \u0130nsan, her \u015feyden \u00f6nce \u015ferefli bir varl\u0131k olarak yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131bo\u015f ve gayesiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 idrak edebilmelidir vesselam.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"yuz-yuze-goz-goze-soz-soze","tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1087,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":3,"name":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N","surname":"\u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","email":"ada.tokatlioglu@turk.net","slug":"huseyin-ozturk","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/1733691600d1camTRk8GL2Xc5.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T14:51:11.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":34734,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":34635,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

\u201cAnlayanla ta\u015f ta\u015f\u0131, anlamayanla bal yeme.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/span>
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Atas\u00f6z\u00fc<\/em><\/strong><\/span>
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\u0130\u015fimiz, sosyal hayat\u0131m\u0131z ve ailemizde, birbirimizle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 veya \u00e7oklu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan irili ufakl\u0131 anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n sebebi; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 a\u00e7\u0131k ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r \u015fekilde konu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan olsa gerektir.<\/span>
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Belki de bu nedenle teknoloji, ileti\u015fim ve ili\u015fkilerimize s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z, sorumsuz ve kolayca girebiliyor; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 kurmam\u0131z gereken m\u00fcnasebetlerimiz, teknolojinin esaretine kurban veriliyor.<\/span>
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Bu hal, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kolayl\u0131klar ad\u0131na hepimizin ho\u015funa gidebilir, memnuniyet verici olabilir, \u015fimdilik kazan\u00e7 gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckebilir lakin uzun vadede insani melekelerimizi zay\u0131flataca\u011f\u0131 ve kay\u0131plara sebep olaca\u011f\u0131 da malumdur.<\/span>
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Tabii bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, i\u015f ve sosyal hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran teknolojiye kar\u015f\u0131 bir duru\u015f sergilenmiyor. Yaln\u0131z teknolojiyi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n her an\u0131na raptedip dengeye dikkat etmedi\u011fimizde, ailemizden ba\u015flayarak, i\u015f ve sosyal ortamlarda insanlardan k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor ve bir an \u00f6nce cep telefonumuza yahut bilgisayar\u0131m\u0131za sar\u0131l\u0131yoruz.<\/span>
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\u0130\u015fte bu \u00f6nemli ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fimizde, \u00f6nce kendimizden kay\u0131plar meydana gelece\u011fi gibi sorumlulu\u011fumuz alt\u0131nda bulunan ailemiz, i\u015fimiz ve sosyal \u00e7evremizde, istenmeyen durumlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabiliyor. Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline gelen g\u00fcnl\u00fck \u015fik\u00e2yetlerimizin temeline bu zaviyeden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 fark edece\u011fiz.<\/span>
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Meseleyi belki eksik anlatm\u0131\u015f olma ihtimaline kar\u015f\u0131 bir \u00f6rnekle g\u00fc\u00e7lendirelim. Her ailede olmayabilir fakat evlerimizin pek \u00e7o\u011funda, aile \u00fcyeleri bir araya gelince, toplam yar\u0131m saat dahi birbirimizle hemhal olam\u0131yor, aile ortam\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, kim oldu\u011funu bilmedi\u011fimiz ki\u015filere tercih edebiliyoruz.<\/span>
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Neyse, s\u00f6z\u00fc teknoloji \u00fczerinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rarak, teknolojinin h\u0131z ve hazz\u0131n\u0131n, insani melekelerimizi etkisi alt\u0131na almamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131p; \u2018y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 m\u00fclakat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrelim. <\/span>
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc l\u00fczumundan fazla s\u00f6z meram\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r, da\u011f\u0131lan s\u00f6z yerini bulmad\u0131k\u00e7a uzar da uzar ve nereye varaca\u011f\u0131 belli olmaz. En iyisi s\u00fck\u00fbt istasyonunda durup, mevzumuza ge\u00e7elim.<\/span>
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Millet olarak s\u00f6zl\u00fc k\u00fclt\u00fcr toplumu olmam\u0131z hasebiyle d\u00fcnya halklar\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde en \u00e7ok atas\u00f6zleri bizim dilimizde mevcuttur. Bu sebeple, insan ve insan halleri, nesilden nesile gelen yadig\u00e2r tembihlerimizde, nasihatlerimizde, \u00f6vg\u00fc yahut yergilerimizde yol g\u00f6sterici vazifesi g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. <\/span>
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Eskiler der ki, \u201c\u0130nsan s\u00f6z\u00fc ile tart\u0131l\u0131r, hal ve hareketleriyle tart\u0131daki \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc belirlenir, ahlak\u0131 ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle de\u011fer kazan\u0131r.\u201d Bu manada insan\u0131n kendisini tan\u0131mas\u0131 beklenir. Kendisini tan\u0131yan kimseler ise sayg\u0131 duyulan bir ki\u015fili\u011fin ve karakterin sahibidirler. <\/span>
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Ki\u015fi kendisini tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir problemi \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f olur. Kendini bilme \u015fuuru ile hareket edenler; i\u015f, sosyal ve aile hayat\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur ve takdir edilirler. Tabii bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, i\u00e7 ve d\u0131\u015f etkenlerden gelebilecek engelleri de hesap etmek laz\u0131m.<\/span>
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\u0130\u00e7 ve d\u0131\u015f etkenler, insanda umuda zarar verir. Oysa insan bir umut hazinesidir. Kendimize inanarak ve g\u00fcvenerek bu hazinenin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, a\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7bir engel yoktur. Engeller, umut hazinesinin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bize g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kuvvet veren yard\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerimizdeki ba\u015far\u0131m\u0131z, kendimizi tan\u0131mak ve sorumluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sahiplenmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Bundan sonras\u0131 ise s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze ve i\u015fimize dikkat, \u00e7aba, istek ve \u00fcslup meselesidir. \u2018Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze\u2019 ileti\u015fim, samimi ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/span>
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Has\u0131l\u0131kelam irfan ehilleri buyururlar ki:<\/span>
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\u0130nsana, \u2018Kendini bil\u2019 denilmesi, yaln\u0131z gururunu k\u0131rmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ki\u015finin de\u011ferini bilmesi i\u00e7indir. \u0130nsan, her \u015feyden \u00f6nce \u015ferefli bir varl\u0131k olarak yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131bo\u015f ve gayesiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 idrak edebilmelidir vesselam.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"yuz-yuze-goz-goze-soz-soze","orjinalimage":null,"news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze s\u00f6z s\u00f6ze","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","view_count":1087,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}