{"status":true,"post":{"id":70925,"user_id":6,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":0,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2025-07-18 08:35:00","created_at":"2025-07-18T05:35:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2025-07-18T05:35:00.000000Z","edited_at":"2025-07-18 08:35:00","source_id":null,"post_id":70925,"is_featured":0,"title":"Ya\u015fam idealimiz nedir?","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":"Ya\u015fam idealimiz nedir?","sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":"<p id=\"isPasted\"><strong>Bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan t\u00fcketmeye, bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan ise \u00fcretmeye gelmi\u015ftir sanki d\u00fcnyaya. Bir k\u0131s\u0131m; durmadan isteyen ama bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc vermeyen, \u00fczerinde ot bile bitmeyen verimsiz bir toprakt\u0131r \u00e2deta. Di\u011fer k\u0131s\u0131m ise \u00e7ok az su ve bak\u0131mla \u00fczerinde t\u00fcrl\u00fc t\u00fcrl\u00fc meyveler, a\u011fa\u00e7lar, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler veren toprak gibidir.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><p><br><\/p><p>\u0130nsanlar asl\u0131nda kendilerine belirledikleri do\u011frultuda y\u00fcr\u00fcrler. Varl\u0131klar \u00e2leminde bulunma nedenlerine verdikleri cevap do\u011frultusunda bir ideal olu\u015ftururlar. Bireylerin bu var olma idealleri; onlar\u0131n ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, verim d\u00fczeylerini de belirler.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>O zaman temel sorumuz \u015fudur: Ya\u015fam ideallerimizin derinli\u011fi nedir? Di\u011fer bir ifade ile bir insan olarak var olma ideallerimizin derinli\u011fi, geni\u015fli\u011fi, \u00e7ap\u0131, ufku nedir? Sadece kendisine d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, bireysel \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan, \u00e7orak bir toprak m\u0131? Yoksa y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc kendisi d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki d\u00fcnyaya d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, verici ve verimli bir toprak m\u0131?<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Ya\u015fam ideali kendi maddi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar, kariyer beklentileri kendi istekleriyle s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar i\u00e7in hayat; do\u011fum ile \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131ndaki kazan\u0131mlardan ba\u015fka bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131maz. Onlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n \u00f6ncesi kadar sonras\u0131 da ilgilendirmez ve bo\u015ftur. Oysa ki ya\u015fam ideali kendi maddi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olmayanlar, sadece kendileri i\u00e7in de\u011fil ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in de ya\u015farlar. Hatta bazen ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015famay\u0131 tercih ederler.\u00a0<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Bug\u00fcn aranan bu insan tipine olan ihtiya\u00e7, g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e art\u0131yor. Alman\u0131n dayan\u0131lmaz tad\u0131n\u0131 elinin tersiyle itip, vermenin dayan\u0131lmaz tad\u0131na aday olanlar\u0131 ar\u0131yor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz toplumlar\u0131. \u0130nsanlar, kendilerine belirledikleri ya\u015fam ideali kadar insan olurlar. \u0130nsanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na katt\u0131klar\u0131 katma de\u011fer kadar insand\u0131rlar. As\u0131l olan kad\u0131n ya da erkek olmak de\u011fildir. As\u0131l olan \u2018er\u2019 olmakt\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n bedenleri farkl\u0131 ama ruhlar\u0131 ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Yani ruhun cinsiyetinden s\u00f6z edemeyiz.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p><strong>EGOMUZ HANG\u0130 D\u00dcZEYDE?<\/strong><\/p><p>\u0130nsan\u0131n ego benlik alg\u0131s\u0131, \u00e7e\u015fitli d\u00fczeylerde geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Egonuzun geli\u015fimi, onu alg\u0131lama d\u00fczeyiniz ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za yans\u0131r.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun en a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fczeyi olan \u2018ben\u2019 konumunda, ki\u015fi kendi i\u00e7in ya\u015far. Hep \u00f6nde ve merkezde olmak isteyen, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerini tatmin etmek ad\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 salt kendine hizmet i\u00e7in g\u00f6ren bir durum s\u00f6z konusudur. Ki\u015finin hayat\u0131nda \u00f6teki yoktur ya da \u00f6teki ancak kendine faydas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcyle vard\u0131r. Ki\u015fi\u00a0<span style=\"background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: 0.01rem;\">sadece kendisi i\u00e7in vard\u0131r, kendisi i\u00e7in ya\u015far. Ki\u015fi; her e\u015fya ve olaya, \u2018ben\u2019e faydas\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fc ve u\u011fra\u015f\u0131s\u0131 ile y\u00f6nelir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kendini aramaya y\u00f6nelir.<\/span><\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun ikinci a\u015famas\u0131 \u2018ben ve sen\u2019dir. Bu a\u015famada ki\u015fi, kendi benli\u011fi yan\u0131nda di\u011ferini de kabul eder. Benlikten tamamen \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ama \u00f6tekinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul edilmi\u015ftir.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc geli\u015fim a\u015famas\u0131, bireyin belirli bir olgunlu\u011fa eri\u015fti\u011fi \u2018sen\u2019 a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fi art\u0131k \u2018ben\u2019 odakl\u0131 olmay\u0131 terk etmi\u015f, ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in var olman\u0131n derdi ile hareket eder h\u00e2le gelmi\u015ftir. Ki\u015fi; her e\u015fya ve olaya, kendine faydas\u0131 ya da ba\u015fkas\u0131na faydas\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6zeterek bakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde ba\u015fkalar\u0131na bir katma de\u011fer \u00fcretme derdi vard\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 almak ister. Birey, kendini \u00f6nde tutmay\u0131p ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015fama erdemine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Nefsin gelebildi\u011fi son a\u015fama \u2018marifetullah\u2019t\u0131r ki, bu a\u015famada ki\u015finin hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde \u2018yarat\u0131c\u0131\u2019 vard\u0131r. Her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini, duygusunu, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bu temel ger\u00e7e\u011fe g\u00f6re organize eder. Tek derdi All\u00e2h\u2019a y\u00f6nelmektir. Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n merkezinde bu ger\u00e7ek yer al\u0131r. Ki\u015fi her t\u00fcrl\u00fc olaya kendini ihmal ederek, ba\u015fkas\u0131 \u00f6ncelikli bakmaya ba\u015flar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde kendisi de\u011fil ba\u015fkas\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapaca\u011f\u0131 iyilikler \u00fczerinden Yarat\u0131c\u0131\u2019n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131na kavu\u015fma derdindedir. Y\u00f6neldi\u011fi her yerde \u2018O\u2019nu g\u00f6rmeye, \u2018O\u2019nu alg\u0131lamaya u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r ve \u2018O\u2019nunla birlikte olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. E\u015fya ve olaylar\u0131, \u2018O\u2019na y\u00f6nelmenin bir u\u011fra\u015f\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p><p>\u00a0<span style=\"white-space:pre;\">\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/p><p><br><\/p>","slug":"yasam-idealimiz-nedir","tags":null,"meta_title":"Ya\u015fam idealimiz nedir?","meta_description":"Bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan t\u00fcketmeye, bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan ise \u00fcretmeye gelmi\u015ftir sanki d\u00fcnyaya. Bir k\u0131s\u0131m; durmadan isteyen ama bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc vermeyen, \u00fczerinde ot bile bitmeyen verimsiz bir toprakt\u0131r \u00e2deta. Di\u011fer k\u0131s\u0131m ise \u00e7ok az su ve bak\u0131mla \u00fczerinde t\u00fcrl\u00fc t\u00fcrl\u00fc meyveler, a\u011fa\u00e7lar, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler veren toprak gibidir.","meta_keywords":null,"news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/17527860000nNZuc6nUDOPCBQ.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":0,"cropped_1200x675":"\/front\/uploads\/haber\/1200x675\/yasam-idealimiz-nedir_1200x675_TOHgTpVT7H.webp","user":{"id":6,"name":"\u0130LHAM\u0130","surname":"FINDIK\u00c7I","email":"kerem49@gonultas.org","slug":"dr-ilhami-findikci","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/17336916007TlCwM70HUjW9XY.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T10:21:29.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":71057,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":70925,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Ya\u015fam idealimiz nedir?","home_title":"Ya\u015fam idealimiz nedir?","sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":"<p id=\"isPasted\"><strong>Bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan t\u00fcketmeye, bir k\u0131s\u0131m insan ise \u00fcretmeye gelmi\u015ftir sanki d\u00fcnyaya. Bir k\u0131s\u0131m; durmadan isteyen ama bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc vermeyen, \u00fczerinde ot bile bitmeyen verimsiz bir toprakt\u0131r \u00e2deta. Di\u011fer k\u0131s\u0131m ise \u00e7ok az su ve bak\u0131mla \u00fczerinde t\u00fcrl\u00fc t\u00fcrl\u00fc meyveler, a\u011fa\u00e7lar, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler veren toprak gibidir.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><p><br><\/p><p>\u0130nsanlar asl\u0131nda kendilerine belirledikleri do\u011frultuda y\u00fcr\u00fcrler. Varl\u0131klar \u00e2leminde bulunma nedenlerine verdikleri cevap do\u011frultusunda bir ideal olu\u015ftururlar. Bireylerin bu var olma idealleri; onlar\u0131n ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, verim d\u00fczeylerini de belirler.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>O zaman temel sorumuz \u015fudur: Ya\u015fam ideallerimizin derinli\u011fi nedir? Di\u011fer bir ifade ile bir insan olarak var olma ideallerimizin derinli\u011fi, geni\u015fli\u011fi, \u00e7ap\u0131, ufku nedir? Sadece kendisine d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, bireysel \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan, \u00e7orak bir toprak m\u0131? Yoksa y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc kendisi d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki d\u00fcnyaya d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, verici ve verimli bir toprak m\u0131?<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Ya\u015fam ideali kendi maddi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar, kariyer beklentileri kendi istekleriyle s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar i\u00e7in hayat; do\u011fum ile \u00f6l\u00fcm aras\u0131ndaki kazan\u0131mlardan ba\u015fka bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131maz. Onlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n \u00f6ncesi kadar sonras\u0131 da ilgilendirmez ve bo\u015ftur. Oysa ki ya\u015fam ideali kendi maddi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olmayanlar, sadece kendileri i\u00e7in de\u011fil ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in de ya\u015farlar. Hatta bazen ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015famay\u0131 tercih ederler.\u00a0<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Bug\u00fcn aranan bu insan tipine olan ihtiya\u00e7, g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e art\u0131yor. Alman\u0131n dayan\u0131lmaz tad\u0131n\u0131 elinin tersiyle itip, vermenin dayan\u0131lmaz tad\u0131na aday olanlar\u0131 ar\u0131yor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz toplumlar\u0131. \u0130nsanlar, kendilerine belirledikleri ya\u015fam ideali kadar insan olurlar. \u0130nsanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na katt\u0131klar\u0131 katma de\u011fer kadar insand\u0131rlar. As\u0131l olan kad\u0131n ya da erkek olmak de\u011fildir. As\u0131l olan \u2018er\u2019 olmakt\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n bedenleri farkl\u0131 ama ruhlar\u0131 ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Yani ruhun cinsiyetinden s\u00f6z edemeyiz.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p><strong>EGOMUZ HANG\u0130 D\u00dcZEYDE?<\/strong><\/p><p>\u0130nsan\u0131n ego benlik alg\u0131s\u0131, \u00e7e\u015fitli d\u00fczeylerde geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Egonuzun geli\u015fimi, onu alg\u0131lama d\u00fczeyiniz ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za yans\u0131r.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun en a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fczeyi olan \u2018ben\u2019 konumunda, ki\u015fi kendi i\u00e7in ya\u015far. Hep \u00f6nde ve merkezde olmak isteyen, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerini tatmin etmek ad\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 salt kendine hizmet i\u00e7in g\u00f6ren bir durum s\u00f6z konusudur. Ki\u015finin hayat\u0131nda \u00f6teki yoktur ya da \u00f6teki ancak kendine faydas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcyle vard\u0131r. Ki\u015fi\u00a0<span style=\"background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: 0.01rem;\">sadece kendisi i\u00e7in vard\u0131r, kendisi i\u00e7in ya\u015far. Ki\u015fi; her e\u015fya ve olaya, \u2018ben\u2019e faydas\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fc ve u\u011fra\u015f\u0131s\u0131 ile y\u00f6nelir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kendini aramaya y\u00f6nelir.<\/span><\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun ikinci a\u015famas\u0131 \u2018ben ve sen\u2019dir. Bu a\u015famada ki\u015fi, kendi benli\u011fi yan\u0131nda di\u011ferini de kabul eder. Benlikten tamamen \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ama \u00f6tekinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul edilmi\u015ftir.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Egonun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc geli\u015fim a\u015famas\u0131, bireyin belirli bir olgunlu\u011fa eri\u015fti\u011fi \u2018sen\u2019 a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fi art\u0131k \u2018ben\u2019 odakl\u0131 olmay\u0131 terk etmi\u015f, ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in var olman\u0131n derdi ile hareket eder h\u00e2le gelmi\u015ftir. Ki\u015fi; her e\u015fya ve olaya, kendine faydas\u0131 ya da ba\u015fkas\u0131na faydas\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6zeterek bakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde ba\u015fkalar\u0131na bir katma de\u011fer \u00fcretme derdi vard\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 almak ister. Birey, kendini \u00f6nde tutmay\u0131p ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015fama erdemine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Nefsin gelebildi\u011fi son a\u015fama \u2018marifetullah\u2019t\u0131r ki, bu a\u015famada ki\u015finin hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde \u2018yarat\u0131c\u0131\u2019 vard\u0131r. Her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini, duygusunu, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bu temel ger\u00e7e\u011fe g\u00f6re organize eder. Tek derdi All\u00e2h\u2019a y\u00f6nelmektir. Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n merkezinde bu ger\u00e7ek yer al\u0131r. Ki\u015fi her t\u00fcrl\u00fc olaya kendini ihmal ederek, ba\u015fkas\u0131 \u00f6ncelikli bakmaya ba\u015flar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde kendisi de\u011fil ba\u015fkas\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapaca\u011f\u0131 iyilikler \u00fczerinden Yarat\u0131c\u0131\u2019n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131na kavu\u015fma derdindedir. Y\u00f6neldi\u011fi her yerde \u2018O\u2019nu g\u00f6rmeye, \u2018O\u2019nu alg\u0131lamaya u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r ve \u2018O\u2019nunla birlikte olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. 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