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\u00dclkemizde ve \u00f6zellikle ticari alanda \u2018sadaka\u2019 meselesini \u00f6nemseyen ve \u2018ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn sadakas\u0131\u2019 diye ihtiya\u00e7 sahiplerine yard\u0131mda bulunan bir toplumuz.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Bizim ticaretimizde ilk siftah ve ilk sadaka, y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r gelenek halinde s\u00fcrer. \u0130nan\u00e7 merkezli gelenekselle\u015fen bu yard\u0131mseverli\u011fi, al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fin yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 her mek\u00e2nda g\u00f6rebiliriz.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Yaz\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da yine b\u00f6yle bir mek\u00e2nda, m\u00fc\u015fterilerine canla-ba\u015fla hizmet eden ve kendisine g\u00f6re de\u011fil, m\u00fc\u015fterinin talebine g\u00f6re ileti\u015fim kuran bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fandan geldi.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Ad\u0131 duyulmu\u015f me\u015fhur bir firman\u0131n, yine \u00e7ok bilinen ma\u011fazas\u0131nda bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 bir hayli izledim. Sat\u0131lacak \u00fcr\u00fcnlerle ilgili m\u00fc\u015fterilerden tahamm\u00fcl s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fan \u00f6yle ilgin\u00e7 sorular geliyordu ki, her soruya sab\u0131rla ve tane tane cevap veriyor, kimseyi \u00fczm\u00fcyordu.<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fteriler biraz azal\u0131nca kendisine:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> -\u201cBu kadar sabr\u0131 nerenizde ta\u015f\u0131yorsunuz ve her m\u00fc\u015fteriye kar\u015f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck sab\u0131rla muamele ediyorsunuz? Negatif gelen m\u00fc\u015fteriler, pozitif enerjiyle gidiyorlar. Tahamm\u00fcl\u00fc zor bir i\u015f yap\u0131yorsunuz ve nas\u0131l katlan\u0131yorsunuz\u201d diye sordum. Dedi ki:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> -\u201cTebess\u00fcm y\u00fcz\u00fcn sadakas\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcn sadakas\u0131n\u0131 veriyorum.\u201d<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Evet, m\u00fchim ve k\u0131ymetli bir cevapt\u0131, arifane bir s\u00f6zd\u00fc. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerinde sat\u0131c\u0131-al\u0131c\u0131 ili\u015fkileri \u00f6yle zorla\u015ft\u0131 ki, t\u00fcketimde s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z ve doyumsuz her \u015feye sahip olma h\u0131rs\u0131, insan ili\u015fkilerini tebess\u00fcmden nefrete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr hale geldi.<\/span><\/p> Bu sebeple b\u00f6yle bir ileti\u015fim \u015fekliyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca payla\u015fay\u0131m istedim. Malumdur ki, tebess\u00fcm, uluslararas\u0131 bir dildir. Tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kap\u0131, konu\u015fturmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 dil yoktur.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p> *\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*<\/span><\/strong><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Tebess\u00fcm, s\u0131f\u0131r sermayeli b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Bu g\u00fcc\u00fc kullanmak i\u00e7in ayr\u0131ca bir emek harcamaya da gerek yok. G\u00f6n\u00fcl dili ile tebess\u00fcm\u00fc birle\u015ftirince -tabiri caizse- yedi d\u00fcvel ile bar\u0131\u015f sa\u011flamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> G\u00fcven kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ilk anahtar\u0131 tebess\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Suistimal \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n zirvesinde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn ve sahibinin de suistimal edilece\u011fi elbet biliniyor ama tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn, art niyetli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sahiplerinin art niyetlerini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan da bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi var.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Beden dilinden bahis a\u00e7arak meseleyi daha vuzuha kavu\u015ftural\u0131m. Niyeti ve eylemi k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle dolu bir kimseye kar\u015f\u0131 tebess\u00fcmle ve yard\u0131mseverlikle hareket edilip, diyalog kuruldu\u011funda, k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ki\u015finin konu\u015fmas\u0131nda; el-kol hareketlerinde, bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda tutars\u0131zl\u0131klar sezersiniz, ki\u015finin kendisi de anlar ve e\u011fer \u00e7ok profesyonel de\u011filse, size kar\u015f\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131 eylemden ve s\u00f6zlerden vazge\u00e7ebilir.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Mevzu, tebess\u00fcm ve tatl\u0131 dil \u00fczerine olunca, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce edebiyat\u0131m\u0131zda bal satan iki ki\u015finin hik\u00e2yesi mek\u00e2n ve zamana uyarlanarak anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Biz de bug\u00fcne uyarlayarak anlatal\u0131m:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> *\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*<\/span><\/strong><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Kasaban\u0131n birinde, \u015fekerlemelerin ve tatl\u0131lar\u0131n sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 sokakta bal satan iki esnaf varm\u0131\u015f. Birisinin m\u00fc\u015fterisi \u00e7ok iken, di\u011ferinin m\u00fc\u015fterisi pek azm\u0131\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi az olan esnaf, di\u011ferini k\u0131skan\u0131r; \u201cOnun bal\u0131 da ayn\u0131, benimkisi de, \u00fcstelik ondan daha ucuza sat\u0131yorum, insanlar yine de ondan al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f yap\u0131yor\u201d diye dert yanarm\u0131\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi bol olan esnaf ise d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131na giren herkese tebess\u00fcmle \u201cHo\u015f geldiniz\u201d der, bir parmak bal tatt\u0131r\u0131r, bal \u00fczerine \u015fiirler s\u00f6yler, \u201cBal\u0131m bal\u0131n olsun, dilin tatl\u0131 olsun\u201d diye mukabelede bulunurmu\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi az olan esnaf gelene gidene dert yanarken, bir g\u00fcn art\u0131k durumu han\u0131m\u0131na da a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ve olup biteni anlatm\u0131\u015f. Han\u0131m\u0131 \u015fu cevab\u0131 vermi\u015f:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> \u201cAyn\u0131 sokakta bal sat\u0131yorsunuz, bir kom\u015funun y\u00fcz\u00fcne, s\u00f6z\u00fcne bak, bir de kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcne ve s\u00f6z\u00fcne bak. Seninki bal yerine sirke satarken, onun y\u00fcz\u00fc ve s\u00f6z\u00fc bal sat\u0131yor. Sen olsan hangisine gidersin\u201d demi\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> K\u0131ssadan hisse:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Herkes bildi\u011fi i\u015fi sahiplenerek ve severek yapmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>","slug":"tebessum-yuzun-sadakasidir","tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1693774800GxYh2UpUXetSyt1.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":2380,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":3,"name":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N","surname":"\u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","email":"ada.tokatlioglu@turk.net","slug":"huseyin-ozturk","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/1733691600d1camTRk8GL2Xc5.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T14:51:11.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":43182,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":43056,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Tebess\u00fcm y\u00fcz\u00fcn sadakas\u0131d\u0131r","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","content":" \u00dclkemizde ve \u00f6zellikle ticari alanda \u2018sadaka\u2019 meselesini \u00f6nemseyen ve \u2018ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn sadakas\u0131\u2019 diye ihtiya\u00e7 sahiplerine yard\u0131mda bulunan bir toplumuz.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Bizim ticaretimizde ilk siftah ve ilk sadaka, y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r gelenek halinde s\u00fcrer. \u0130nan\u00e7 merkezli gelenekselle\u015fen bu yard\u0131mseverli\u011fi, al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fin yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 her mek\u00e2nda g\u00f6rebiliriz.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Yaz\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da yine b\u00f6yle bir mek\u00e2nda, m\u00fc\u015fterilerine canla-ba\u015fla hizmet eden ve kendisine g\u00f6re de\u011fil, m\u00fc\u015fterinin talebine g\u00f6re ileti\u015fim kuran bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fandan geldi.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Ad\u0131 duyulmu\u015f me\u015fhur bir firman\u0131n, yine \u00e7ok bilinen ma\u011fazas\u0131nda bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 bir hayli izledim. Sat\u0131lacak \u00fcr\u00fcnlerle ilgili m\u00fc\u015fterilerden tahamm\u00fcl s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fan \u00f6yle ilgin\u00e7 sorular geliyordu ki, her soruya sab\u0131rla ve tane tane cevap veriyor, kimseyi \u00fczm\u00fcyordu.<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fteriler biraz azal\u0131nca kendisine:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> -\u201cBu kadar sabr\u0131 nerenizde ta\u015f\u0131yorsunuz ve her m\u00fc\u015fteriye kar\u015f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck sab\u0131rla muamele ediyorsunuz? Negatif gelen m\u00fc\u015fteriler, pozitif enerjiyle gidiyorlar. Tahamm\u00fcl\u00fc zor bir i\u015f yap\u0131yorsunuz ve nas\u0131l katlan\u0131yorsunuz\u201d diye sordum. Dedi ki:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> -\u201cTebess\u00fcm y\u00fcz\u00fcn sadakas\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcn sadakas\u0131n\u0131 veriyorum.\u201d<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Evet, m\u00fchim ve k\u0131ymetli bir cevapt\u0131, arifane bir s\u00f6zd\u00fc. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerinde sat\u0131c\u0131-al\u0131c\u0131 ili\u015fkileri \u00f6yle zorla\u015ft\u0131 ki, t\u00fcketimde s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z ve doyumsuz her \u015feye sahip olma h\u0131rs\u0131, insan ili\u015fkilerini tebess\u00fcmden nefrete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr hale geldi.<\/span><\/p> Bu sebeple b\u00f6yle bir ileti\u015fim \u015fekliyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca payla\u015fay\u0131m istedim. Malumdur ki, tebess\u00fcm, uluslararas\u0131 bir dildir. Tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kap\u0131, konu\u015fturmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 dil yoktur.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p> *\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*<\/span><\/strong><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Tebess\u00fcm, s\u0131f\u0131r sermayeli b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Bu g\u00fcc\u00fc kullanmak i\u00e7in ayr\u0131ca bir emek harcamaya da gerek yok. G\u00f6n\u00fcl dili ile tebess\u00fcm\u00fc birle\u015ftirince -tabiri caizse- yedi d\u00fcvel ile bar\u0131\u015f sa\u011flamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> G\u00fcven kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ilk anahtar\u0131 tebess\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Suistimal \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n zirvesinde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn ve sahibinin de suistimal edilece\u011fi elbet biliniyor ama tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn, art niyetli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sahiplerinin art niyetlerini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan da bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi var.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Beden dilinden bahis a\u00e7arak meseleyi daha vuzuha kavu\u015ftural\u0131m. Niyeti ve eylemi k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle dolu bir kimseye kar\u015f\u0131 tebess\u00fcmle ve yard\u0131mseverlikle hareket edilip, diyalog kuruldu\u011funda, k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ki\u015finin konu\u015fmas\u0131nda; el-kol hareketlerinde, bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda tutars\u0131zl\u0131klar sezersiniz, ki\u015finin kendisi de anlar ve e\u011fer \u00e7ok profesyonel de\u011filse, size kar\u015f\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131 eylemden ve s\u00f6zlerden vazge\u00e7ebilir.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Mevzu, tebess\u00fcm ve tatl\u0131 dil \u00fczerine olunca, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce edebiyat\u0131m\u0131zda bal satan iki ki\u015finin hik\u00e2yesi mek\u00e2n ve zamana uyarlanarak anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Biz de bug\u00fcne uyarlayarak anlatal\u0131m:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> *\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0*<\/span><\/strong><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> Kasaban\u0131n birinde, \u015fekerlemelerin ve tatl\u0131lar\u0131n sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 sokakta bal satan iki esnaf varm\u0131\u015f. Birisinin m\u00fc\u015fterisi \u00e7ok iken, di\u011ferinin m\u00fc\u015fterisi pek azm\u0131\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi az olan esnaf, di\u011ferini k\u0131skan\u0131r; \u201cOnun bal\u0131 da ayn\u0131, benimkisi de, \u00fcstelik ondan daha ucuza sat\u0131yorum, insanlar yine de ondan al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f yap\u0131yor\u201d diye dert yanarm\u0131\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi bol olan esnaf ise d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131na giren herkese tebess\u00fcmle \u201cHo\u015f geldiniz\u201d der, bir parmak bal tatt\u0131r\u0131r, bal \u00fczerine \u015fiirler s\u00f6yler, \u201cBal\u0131m bal\u0131n olsun, dilin tatl\u0131 olsun\u201d diye mukabelede bulunurmu\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> M\u00fc\u015fterisi az olan esnaf gelene gidene dert yanarken, bir g\u00fcn art\u0131k durumu han\u0131m\u0131na da a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f ve olup biteni anlatm\u0131\u015f. Han\u0131m\u0131 \u015fu cevab\u0131 vermi\u015f:<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> \u201cAyn\u0131 sokakta bal sat\u0131yorsunuz, bir kom\u015funun y\u00fcz\u00fcne, s\u00f6z\u00fcne bak, bir de kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcne ve s\u00f6z\u00fcne bak. Seninki bal yerine sirke satarken, onun y\u00fcz\u00fc ve s\u00f6z\u00fc bal sat\u0131yor. Sen olsan hangisine gidersin\u201d demi\u015f.<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/span><\/p> K\u0131ssadan hisse:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Herkes bildi\u011fi i\u015fi sahiplenerek ve severek yapmal\u0131.<\/span><\/p>","slug":"tebessum-yuzun-sadakasidir","orjinalimage":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1693774800GxYh2UpUXetSyt1.webp","news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/1693774800GxYh2UpUXetSyt1.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"view_count":2380,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}
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