{"status":true,"post":{"id":26413,"user_id":6,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2022-10-24 15:19:26","created_at":"2021-05-06T21:00:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2022-10-24T12:19:26.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":26413,"is_featured":0,"title":"Lider kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcnde","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

Dr. \u0130lhami F\u0131nd\u0131k\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/span>
<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Hep s\u00f6ylenir, liderlik apayr\u0131 bir duyu\u015f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f ve bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, liderin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, y\u00fczy\u0131llar sonras\u0131na bile \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutabilir. Lider \u00f6nc\u00fcd\u00fcr, \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, ileti\u015fim ve ikna kabiliyeti geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ve canl\u0131lar\u0131, hatta cans\u0131zlar\u0131 \u00e7ok sever. Gelece\u011fi tahmin yetene\u011fi geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Karizma olarak tarif edebilece\u011fimiz, insanlar\u0131 etkileme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahiptir.<\/span><\/p>

Say\u0131lan \u00f6zellikler d\u00fcnya tarihinde isim yapm\u0131\u015f bir\u00e7ok liderde az veya \u00e7ok vard\u0131r. Bu \u00f6zelliklerin biri insan ili\u015fkilerindeki duyarl\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r. Evet, lider \u00e7evresindeki insanlara duyarl\u0131d\u0131r. Lider onlar i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, onlar i\u00e7in yorulur, onlara bir \u015feyler yapman\u0131n gayreti i\u00e7inde olur. Onlar\u0131 rahatlat\u0131r, onlar\u0131 onore eder, h\u00fcrmet eder. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de derin ve sars\u0131lmaz i\u00e7ten bir h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Ertesi g\u00fcn bitmeyen bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k olu\u015fturur.<\/span><\/p>

RAHMET Y\u00dcKL\u00dc BULUTLAR G\u0130B\u0130<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Lider, rahmet y\u00fckl\u00fc bulutlar gibi her an ya\u011fmaya, her an ye\u015fertmeye, her an yeni hayatlar\u0131n filizlenip geli\u015fmesine zemin haz\u0131rlar. Herkesin t\u00fckendi\u011fi, \u00e7arelerin yetersiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, neden ve ni\u00e7inlerin anlams\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 noktada bile \u00fcretmeye, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu aramaya devam eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar, normal insan\u0131n \u00f6tesinde donat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7o\u011fu zaman normal dedi\u011fimiz y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan ilk etapta anla\u015f\u0131lmayabilir, hatta hor g\u00f6r\u00fclebilirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc normalde insanlar\u0131n, hayat\u0131 sadece ya\u015fama gayretlerine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k liderin, hayat\u0131 hakk\u0131yla ya\u015fama, bir anlamda hayat\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 verme \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131 s\u00f6z konusudur. Bu anlay\u0131\u015fla g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz liderine bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ister bir ailede ister i\u015fletmede isterse se\u00e7imle gelmi\u015f siyasilerde bu kayg\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrde oldu\u011fu, ancak ger\u00e7ekte yeterince ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi g\u00f6sterinin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015flara da pek yans\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Anahtar rol oynayan ve liderli\u011fin di\u011fer boyutlar\u0131n\u0131 da a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karan insan ili\u015fkileri duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman reklam\u0131n \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7ememesi ve \u00f6ze inememesi hazindir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kendisine lider diyen y\u00f6neticilerin \u00e7o\u011fu, \u00e7evresindeki ki\u015fileri ve ili\u015fkileri kullanma e\u011filimine giriyor ve ki\u015fileri kulland\u0131k\u00e7a ald\u0131klar\u0131 mesafenin kal\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Oysa ki ki\u015filikleri ezerek yol alan lider, bir g\u00fcn ezecek ki\u015filikler bulamayacak ve oldu\u011fu yerde kalacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>

GAN\u0130MET\u0130 \u0130NSANLARA SUNMAK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerine duyarl\u0131 olman\u0131n di\u011fer bir boyutu ise ganimeti insanlara sunmak ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ile me\u015fakkati ise \u00fcstlenmektir. Sade bir vatanda\u015f bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile \u2018lider, ni\u00e7in ganimette ba\u015fkalar\u0131na, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131da kendisine \u00f6ncelik versin\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir, hatta bu bak\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmayabilir. Evet, zaten ger\u00e7ek liderlerin \u00e7o\u011fu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmaz. Onlar herhangi bir ki\u015fi gibi kendi \u00f6nceli\u011fine de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na \u00f6nem verdikleri i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli olurlar.<\/span><\/p>

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kendisini topluma adam\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ama \u00f6zde geli\u015fmi\u015f bir ben merkezci yap\u0131ya sahip olan, ki\u015fileri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6ren liderlerin say\u0131s\u0131 ne yaz\u0131k ki az de\u011fildir. Burada kritik soru \u015fudur: Makam, toplumu temsil eden sosyal benli\u011fin ve ruhun emrinde midir? Yoksa i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcleri temsil eden alt benin yani ben merkezinin emrinde midir? Her lider, bir an i\u00e7in g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kapat\u0131p objektif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 bulabilir. Kendilerine emanet verilmi\u015f makamlarla \u015fi\u015fen, kendilerini ve \u00e7evrelerini unutan ve adeta makama dayal\u0131 yeni bir benlik in\u015fa eden zavall\u0131 ki\u015filer, g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde \u015fi\u015firilmi\u015f bu yapay benlikleri ile kendi \u00f6z-ger\u00e7ek benlikleri aras\u0131nda gel-gitler ya\u015farlar.<\/span><\/p>

Sonu\u00e7 olarak ister bir ailede, i\u015fletmede, ister mesle\u011fimizde ya da kamuda y\u00f6netici, \u00f6nder ya da lider olal\u0131m. L\u00fctfen liderli\u011fin hakk\u0131n\u0131 verelim. Ya kendimize lider demeyelim ya da hakk\u0131n\u0131 verelim.<\/span><\/p>

Ger\u00e7ek bir lidere g\u00f6sterilmesi gereken ilgiyi, sevgiyi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc bekleyip, ger\u00e7ek bir liderin g\u00f6stermesi gereken ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerindeki duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6sterelim ve en \u00f6nemlisi benlik \u00e7\u0131kmaz\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fal\u0131m. A\u015fal\u0131m ki, insanlar\u0131n bize duyduklar\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermelik olmaktan \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n. Daha da \u00f6nemlisi makam ve mevkimizi, kendimize, benli\u011fimize \u00f6ncelik kazand\u0131rma arac\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, \u00e7evremize \u00f6ncelik kazand\u0131racak bir ara\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6relim. Kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda yol arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 unutmayal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"lider-kaptan-koskunde","tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"Lider kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcnde","meta_description":"Dr. \u0130lhami F\u0131nd\u0131k\u00e7\u0131","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1101,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":6,"name":"\u0130LHAM\u0130","surname":"FINDIK\u00c7I","email":"kerem49@gonultas.org","slug":"dr-ilhami-findikci","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/17336916007TlCwM70HUjW9XY.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T10:21:29.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":26512,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":26413,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Lider kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcnde","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

Dr. \u0130lhami F\u0131nd\u0131k\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/span>
<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Hep s\u00f6ylenir, liderlik apayr\u0131 bir duyu\u015f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f ve bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, liderin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, y\u00fczy\u0131llar sonras\u0131na bile \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutabilir. Lider \u00f6nc\u00fcd\u00fcr, \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, ileti\u015fim ve ikna kabiliyeti geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ve canl\u0131lar\u0131, hatta cans\u0131zlar\u0131 \u00e7ok sever. Gelece\u011fi tahmin yetene\u011fi geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Karizma olarak tarif edebilece\u011fimiz, insanlar\u0131 etkileme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahiptir.<\/span><\/p>

Say\u0131lan \u00f6zellikler d\u00fcnya tarihinde isim yapm\u0131\u015f bir\u00e7ok liderde az veya \u00e7ok vard\u0131r. Bu \u00f6zelliklerin biri insan ili\u015fkilerindeki duyarl\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r. Evet, lider \u00e7evresindeki insanlara duyarl\u0131d\u0131r. Lider onlar i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, onlar i\u00e7in yorulur, onlara bir \u015feyler yapman\u0131n gayreti i\u00e7inde olur. Onlar\u0131 rahatlat\u0131r, onlar\u0131 onore eder, h\u00fcrmet eder. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de derin ve sars\u0131lmaz i\u00e7ten bir h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Ertesi g\u00fcn bitmeyen bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k olu\u015fturur.<\/span><\/p>

RAHMET Y\u00dcKL\u00dc BULUTLAR G\u0130B\u0130<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Lider, rahmet y\u00fckl\u00fc bulutlar gibi her an ya\u011fmaya, her an ye\u015fertmeye, her an yeni hayatlar\u0131n filizlenip geli\u015fmesine zemin haz\u0131rlar. Herkesin t\u00fckendi\u011fi, \u00e7arelerin yetersiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, neden ve ni\u00e7inlerin anlams\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 noktada bile \u00fcretmeye, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu aramaya devam eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar, normal insan\u0131n \u00f6tesinde donat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7o\u011fu zaman normal dedi\u011fimiz y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan ilk etapta anla\u015f\u0131lmayabilir, hatta hor g\u00f6r\u00fclebilirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc normalde insanlar\u0131n, hayat\u0131 sadece ya\u015fama gayretlerine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k liderin, hayat\u0131 hakk\u0131yla ya\u015fama, bir anlamda hayat\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 verme \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131 s\u00f6z konusudur. Bu anlay\u0131\u015fla g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz liderine bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ister bir ailede ister i\u015fletmede isterse se\u00e7imle gelmi\u015f siyasilerde bu kayg\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrde oldu\u011fu, ancak ger\u00e7ekte yeterince ya\u015fanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi g\u00f6sterinin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda davran\u0131\u015flara da pek yans\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Anahtar rol oynayan ve liderli\u011fin di\u011fer boyutlar\u0131n\u0131 da a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karan insan ili\u015fkileri duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman reklam\u0131n \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7ememesi ve \u00f6ze inememesi hazindir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kendisine lider diyen y\u00f6neticilerin \u00e7o\u011fu, \u00e7evresindeki ki\u015fileri ve ili\u015fkileri kullanma e\u011filimine giriyor ve ki\u015fileri kulland\u0131k\u00e7a ald\u0131klar\u0131 mesafenin kal\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Oysa ki ki\u015filikleri ezerek yol alan lider, bir g\u00fcn ezecek ki\u015filikler bulamayacak ve oldu\u011fu yerde kalacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>

GAN\u0130MET\u0130 \u0130NSANLARA SUNMAK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerine duyarl\u0131 olman\u0131n di\u011fer bir boyutu ise ganimeti insanlara sunmak ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ile me\u015fakkati ise \u00fcstlenmektir. Sade bir vatanda\u015f bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile \u2018lider, ni\u00e7in ganimette ba\u015fkalar\u0131na, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131da kendisine \u00f6ncelik versin\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir, hatta bu bak\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmayabilir. Evet, zaten ger\u00e7ek liderlerin \u00e7o\u011fu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmaz. Onlar herhangi bir ki\u015fi gibi kendi \u00f6nceli\u011fine de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na \u00f6nem verdikleri i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli olurlar.<\/span><\/p>

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kendisini topluma adam\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ama \u00f6zde geli\u015fmi\u015f bir ben merkezci yap\u0131ya sahip olan, ki\u015fileri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6ren liderlerin say\u0131s\u0131 ne yaz\u0131k ki az de\u011fildir. Burada kritik soru \u015fudur: Makam, toplumu temsil eden sosyal benli\u011fin ve ruhun emrinde midir? Yoksa i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcleri temsil eden alt benin yani ben merkezinin emrinde midir? Her lider, bir an i\u00e7in g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kapat\u0131p objektif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 bulabilir. Kendilerine emanet verilmi\u015f makamlarla \u015fi\u015fen, kendilerini ve \u00e7evrelerini unutan ve adeta makama dayal\u0131 yeni bir benlik in\u015fa eden zavall\u0131 ki\u015filer, g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde \u015fi\u015firilmi\u015f bu yapay benlikleri ile kendi \u00f6z-ger\u00e7ek benlikleri aras\u0131nda gel-gitler ya\u015farlar.<\/span><\/p>

Sonu\u00e7 olarak ister bir ailede, i\u015fletmede, ister mesle\u011fimizde ya da kamuda y\u00f6netici, \u00f6nder ya da lider olal\u0131m. L\u00fctfen liderli\u011fin hakk\u0131n\u0131 verelim. Ya kendimize lider demeyelim ya da hakk\u0131n\u0131 verelim.<\/span><\/p>

Ger\u00e7ek bir lidere g\u00f6sterilmesi gereken ilgiyi, sevgiyi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc bekleyip, ger\u00e7ek bir liderin g\u00f6stermesi gereken ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerindeki duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6sterelim ve en \u00f6nemlisi benlik \u00e7\u0131kmaz\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fal\u0131m. A\u015fal\u0131m ki, insanlar\u0131n bize duyduklar\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermelik olmaktan \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n. Daha da \u00f6nemlisi makam ve mevkimizi, kendimize, benli\u011fimize \u00f6ncelik kazand\u0131rma arac\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, \u00e7evremize \u00f6ncelik kazand\u0131racak bir ara\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6relim. Kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda yol arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 unutmayal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"lider-kaptan-koskunde","orjinalimage":null,"news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"Lider kaptan k\u00f6\u015fk\u00fcnde","meta_description":"Dr. \u0130lhami F\u0131nd\u0131k\u00e7\u0131","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","view_count":1101,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}