{"status":true,"post":{"id":51502,"user_id":6,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2024-05-06 10:27:00","created_at":"2024-05-06T07:27:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-05-06T07:27:00.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":51502,"is_featured":0,"title":"Kaliteli insan","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","content":"<p id=\"isPasted\" style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong style=\"background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: 0.01rem;\"><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>ifindikci@degerdanismanlik.com.tr<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Hocam\u0131z, derste ilgin\u00e7 bir uygulama yapt\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7ok etkilendi\u011fim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 unutmam. Etkilendim; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u0131llar \u00f6nce k\u00f6y odas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir deneyim, seneler sonra Londra\u2019daki doktora sonras\u0131 dersimde kar\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Derinlik psikolojisi dersini veren \u00fcnl\u00fc profes\u00f6r hocam\u0131z, olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 bir insand\u0131. Dersleri s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131yd\u0131 ve adeta s\u0131n\u0131fa s\u0131\u011fm\u0131yordu! Bazen kamp\u00fcs\u00fcn bah\u00e7esindeki g\u00f6letin yan\u0131nda, bazen \u015fehrin metrosunda, bazen de yak\u0131ndaki ya\u015fl\u0131lar yurdunda ders yapard\u0131k. E\u011flendirirdi, \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131rd\u0131, g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc, en \u00e7ok da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bazen hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmay\u0131p g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc seyrederdi, biz de ona uyard\u0131k. Sonra da neler g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc anlatt\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. Hocam\u0131z\u0131n dersleri sayesinde arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na ta\u015far ve geli\u015firdi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>S\u0131n\u0131fta ders yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir g\u00fcn hepimize birer gofret ikram etti ve dersine ba\u015flad\u0131\u2026<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>YA\u015eARKEN \u00d6LEB\u0130LMEK<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u201cBug\u00fcn bir deney ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z. Be\u015fer dakikal\u0131k iki ayr\u0131 s\u00fcreniz var. Birinci a\u015famada g\u00f6zlerinizi kapat\u0131n ve \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc varsay\u0131n. Evet, farz edin ki \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fcz ve bug\u00fcne kadarki ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011ferlendiriyorsunuz.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Ba\u015fka \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015f ya\u015fant\u0131n\u0131za, ili\u015fkilerinize, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za; k\u0131sacas\u0131 bir insan olarak hayattaki etkinliklerinize odaklanacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Hayatta sizi en mutlu eden, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 k\u0131lan olaylar\u0131 ve bu s\u0131rada ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duygular\u0131 an\u0131msayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Yaln\u0131z bunlar k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli, ge\u00e7ici zevkler olmas\u0131n! Uzun s\u00fcre iyi hissetmenizi sa\u011flayan, her hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda size ya\u015fama hazz\u0131 vermeye devam eden somut davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z neler? K\u0131sacas\u0131 kaliteli bir insan olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayan ya\u015fam deneyimleriniz neler? Bunlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da gururland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, d\u00fcnyaya yeniden d\u00f6nseniz en \u00e7ok yapmay\u0131 isteyece\u011finiz ve keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z deneyimler olmas\u0131na dikkat edin. G\u00f6zleriniz kapal\u0131yken akl\u0131n\u0131za ilk gelenler \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Bunu yaparken sandalyede veya yerde oturabilir, hatta uzanabilirsiniz de.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Deneyin ikinci be\u015f dakikal\u0131k a\u015famas\u0131nda g\u00f6zlerinizi a\u00e7\u0131n. \u00d6ncelikle akl\u0131n\u0131za ilk gelenleri not edin. \u00d6ld\u00fckten sonra bile sizi iyi hissettiren, insan olarak kalitenizi ortaya koyan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131n. K\u0131sa ama samimi olmal\u0131! Eminim ki yazaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ok \u015fey olacakt\u0131r. Ama bunlar\u0131 s\u00fcz\u00fcn, size s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir ya\u015fam keyfi veren ve iyi hissettiren duygular\u0131n k\u00f6k kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 en \u00e7ok be\u015f on c\u00fcmleyle ifade edin. K\u00e2\u011f\u0131tlara isimlerinizi yazmayabilirsiniz.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u0130ki arkada\u015f yere oturdu, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131fta bulunan minderlere uzand\u0131, kalanlar sandalyelere ge\u00e7ti ve herkes g\u00f6zlerini kapatt\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><br><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>G\u00f6zlerimi kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, zihnime iki konu h\u00fccum etti. Birincisi, kabirdeki sorgu melekleriydi. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dair sorular soracaklar\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z melekler. Sanki onlara cevap veren bir ruh h\u00e2liyle, 27 y\u0131ll\u0131k hayat\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><br><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>O vakitler 27 idim. Kaliteli bir insan olman\u0131n neresinde oldu\u011fuma ve bu y\u00f6ndeki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ma odakland\u0131m. Bu s\u0131rada hissetti\u011fim duygular\u0131 analiz etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ne zor i\u015fmi\u015f hayattayken \u00f6lmek\u2026<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>NEY\u0130 D\u0130NLEYEL\u0130M?<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>G\u00f6zler kapan\u0131nca akl\u0131ma gelen ikinci konu; k\u00f6ydeki \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131mda bembeyaz sakallar\u0131, uzun entarisi, s\u00fcrekli g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen \u00e7ehresi ve elindeki uzun as\u00e2s\u0131yla k\u00f6y k\u00f6y dola\u015fan ya\u015fl\u0131 dervi\u015f amca oldu. Bazen k\u00f6y odas\u0131nda ama \u00e7o\u011funlukla arazide, bir dere kenar\u0131nda, bir \u00e7e\u015fme ba\u015f\u0131nda yahut uzun k\u0131\u015f gecelerinde bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sohbet sofras\u0131nda otururdu.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Etraf\u0131nda toplanan ahali, dervi\u015fi hu\u015fu i\u00e7inde dinlerdi. Bazen g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcr, bazen g\u00f6zleri nemlendirir, bazen de \u00f6ylece susard\u0131. Ses \u00e7\u0131karanlar\u0131n ise dinlemesini isterdi. Bir defas\u0131nda bir k\u00f6yl\u00fc; \u201cDervi\u015fim etrafta ses yok, neyi dinleyelim ki?\u201d demi\u015fti. Cevap \u00e7ok netti: \u201c\u0130yi ya, olmayan sesleri dinleyin! Sessizli\u011fin de bir sesi var. Her iki \u00e2lemden y\u00fckselen seslere kulak verin. Biri kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131z\u0131n sesi, di\u011feri ise \u00e2lemin...\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Dervi\u015f amcay\u0131 pek sever, geli\u015fini iple \u00e7ekerdik. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cebinden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fik \u015fekerleri verirdi bize. G\u00f6zler kapal\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f hayat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, garip \u015feyler de gelirdi akla. Acaba k\u00f6ydeki dervi\u015f amcayla Londra\u2019daki bu hoca aras\u0131nda bir akrabal\u0131k m\u0131 vard\u0131? Belki biyolojik bir akrabal\u0131k yoktu ama insan kalitesi olarak \u00f6nemli bir benzerlik oldu\u011fu a\u015fik\u00e2rd\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n neresinde olursa olsun insanlar\u0131 seven, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren, onlara ayna olabilen, yeri geldi\u011finde onlar\u0131 kendine tercih edebilen kaliteli insan \u00f6zelli\u011finde bulu\u015fuyorlard\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Dervi\u015f de profes\u00f6r de \u00e2lemle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k, olgun ve geli\u015fmeye a\u00e7\u0131k ki\u015filiklerdi. S\u00f6z\u00fcn yan\u0131nda susman\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne de h\u00e2kim olan kaliteli insanlard\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u0130ki a\u015famal\u0131 deney s\u00fcremiz doldu\u011funda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00e2\u011f\u0131tlar\u0131 hocaya vermi\u015f ve merakla yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za ili\u015fkin de\u011ferlendirmeyi beklemi\u015ftik. Ama sonu\u00e7lar bir sonraki derse kald\u0131! Zira hoca t\u00fcm yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 \u00f6zel bir programla kelime analizine t\u00e2bi tutacak ve bizi en \u00e7ok mutlu eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla bu s\u0131rada hissetti\u011fimiz duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6k kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 birka\u00e7 kelimeye indirgeyerek yorumlayacakt\u0131\u2026 (Devam edece\u011fiz)<\/span><\/p>","slug":"kaliteli-insan","tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/17149428004j0hZiSiC7TCLgs.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":4743,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":6,"name":"\u0130LHAM\u0130","surname":"FINDIK\u00c7I","email":"kerem49@gonultas.org","slug":"dr-ilhami-findikci","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/17336916007TlCwM70HUjW9XY.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T10:21:29.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":51628,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":51502,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"Kaliteli insan","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","content":"<p id=\"isPasted\" style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong style=\"background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: 0.01rem;\"><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>ifindikci@degerdanismanlik.com.tr<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Hocam\u0131z, derste ilgin\u00e7 bir uygulama yapt\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7ok etkilendi\u011fim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 unutmam. Etkilendim; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u0131llar \u00f6nce k\u00f6y odas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir deneyim, seneler sonra Londra\u2019daki doktora sonras\u0131 dersimde kar\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Derinlik psikolojisi dersini veren \u00fcnl\u00fc profes\u00f6r hocam\u0131z, olduk\u00e7a farkl\u0131 bir insand\u0131. Dersleri s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131yd\u0131 ve adeta s\u0131n\u0131fa s\u0131\u011fm\u0131yordu! Bazen kamp\u00fcs\u00fcn bah\u00e7esindeki g\u00f6letin yan\u0131nda, bazen \u015fehrin metrosunda, bazen de yak\u0131ndaki ya\u015fl\u0131lar yurdunda ders yapard\u0131k. E\u011flendirirdi, \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131rd\u0131, g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc, en \u00e7ok da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bazen hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmay\u0131p g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc seyrederdi, biz de ona uyard\u0131k. Sonra da neler g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc anlatt\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. Hocam\u0131z\u0131n dersleri sayesinde arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na ta\u015far ve geli\u015firdi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>S\u0131n\u0131fta ders yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir g\u00fcn hepimize birer gofret ikram etti ve dersine ba\u015flad\u0131\u2026<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>YA\u015eARKEN \u00d6LEB\u0130LMEK<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u201cBug\u00fcn bir deney ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z. Be\u015fer dakikal\u0131k iki ayr\u0131 s\u00fcreniz var. Birinci a\u015famada g\u00f6zlerinizi kapat\u0131n ve \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc varsay\u0131n. Evet, farz edin ki \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fcz ve bug\u00fcne kadarki ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011ferlendiriyorsunuz.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Ba\u015fka \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015f ya\u015fant\u0131n\u0131za, ili\u015fkilerinize, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za; k\u0131sacas\u0131 bir insan olarak hayattaki etkinliklerinize odaklanacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Hayatta sizi en mutlu eden, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 k\u0131lan olaylar\u0131 ve bu s\u0131rada ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duygular\u0131 an\u0131msayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Yaln\u0131z bunlar k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli, ge\u00e7ici zevkler olmas\u0131n! Uzun s\u00fcre iyi hissetmenizi sa\u011flayan, her hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda size ya\u015fama hazz\u0131 vermeye devam eden somut davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z neler? K\u0131sacas\u0131 kaliteli bir insan olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayan ya\u015fam deneyimleriniz neler? Bunlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da gururland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, d\u00fcnyaya yeniden d\u00f6nseniz en \u00e7ok yapmay\u0131 isteyece\u011finiz ve keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z deneyimler olmas\u0131na dikkat edin. G\u00f6zleriniz kapal\u0131yken akl\u0131n\u0131za ilk gelenler \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Bunu yaparken sandalyede veya yerde oturabilir, hatta uzanabilirsiniz de.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Deneyin ikinci be\u015f dakikal\u0131k a\u015famas\u0131nda g\u00f6zlerinizi a\u00e7\u0131n. \u00d6ncelikle akl\u0131n\u0131za ilk gelenleri not edin. \u00d6ld\u00fckten sonra bile sizi iyi hissettiren, insan olarak kalitenizi ortaya koyan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131n. K\u0131sa ama samimi olmal\u0131! Eminim ki yazaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ok \u015fey olacakt\u0131r. Ama bunlar\u0131 s\u00fcz\u00fcn, size s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir ya\u015fam keyfi veren ve iyi hissettiren duygular\u0131n k\u00f6k kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 en \u00e7ok be\u015f on c\u00fcmleyle ifade edin. K\u00e2\u011f\u0131tlara isimlerinizi yazmayabilirsiniz.\u201d<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u0130ki arkada\u015f yere oturdu, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131fta bulunan minderlere uzand\u0131, kalanlar sandalyelere ge\u00e7ti ve herkes g\u00f6zlerini kapatt\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><br><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>G\u00f6zlerimi kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, zihnime iki konu h\u00fccum etti. Birincisi, kabirdeki sorgu melekleriydi. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dair sorular soracaklar\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z melekler. Sanki onlara cevap veren bir ruh h\u00e2liyle, 27 y\u0131ll\u0131k hayat\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><br><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>O vakitler 27 idim. Kaliteli bir insan olman\u0131n neresinde oldu\u011fuma ve bu y\u00f6ndeki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ma odakland\u0131m. Bu s\u0131rada hissetti\u011fim duygular\u0131 analiz etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ne zor i\u015fmi\u015f hayattayken \u00f6lmek\u2026<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><strong><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>NEY\u0130 D\u0130NLEYEL\u0130M?<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>G\u00f6zler kapan\u0131nca akl\u0131ma gelen ikinci konu; k\u00f6ydeki \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131mda bembeyaz sakallar\u0131, uzun entarisi, s\u00fcrekli g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen \u00e7ehresi ve elindeki uzun as\u00e2s\u0131yla k\u00f6y k\u00f6y dola\u015fan ya\u015fl\u0131 dervi\u015f amca oldu. Bazen k\u00f6y odas\u0131nda ama \u00e7o\u011funlukla arazide, bir dere kenar\u0131nda, bir \u00e7e\u015fme ba\u015f\u0131nda yahut uzun k\u0131\u015f gecelerinde bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sohbet sofras\u0131nda otururdu.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Etraf\u0131nda toplanan ahali, dervi\u015fi hu\u015fu i\u00e7inde dinlerdi. Bazen g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcr, bazen g\u00f6zleri nemlendirir, bazen de \u00f6ylece susard\u0131. Ses \u00e7\u0131karanlar\u0131n ise dinlemesini isterdi. Bir defas\u0131nda bir k\u00f6yl\u00fc; \u201cDervi\u015fim etrafta ses yok, neyi dinleyelim ki?\u201d demi\u015fti. Cevap \u00e7ok netti: \u201c\u0130yi ya, olmayan sesleri dinleyin! Sessizli\u011fin de bir sesi var. Her iki \u00e2lemden y\u00fckselen seslere kulak verin. Biri kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131z\u0131n sesi, di\u011feri ise \u00e2lemin...\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>Dervi\u015f amcay\u0131 pek sever, geli\u015fini iple \u00e7ekerdik. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cebinden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fik \u015fekerleri verirdi bize. G\u00f6zler kapal\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f hayat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, garip \u015feyler de gelirdi akla. Acaba k\u00f6ydeki dervi\u015f amcayla Londra\u2019daki bu hoca aras\u0131nda bir akrabal\u0131k m\u0131 vard\u0131? Belki biyolojik bir akrabal\u0131k yoktu ama insan kalitesi olarak \u00f6nemli bir benzerlik oldu\u011fu a\u015fik\u00e2rd\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n neresinde olursa olsun insanlar\u0131 seven, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren, onlara ayna olabilen, yeri geldi\u011finde onlar\u0131 kendine tercih edebilen kaliteli insan \u00f6zelli\u011finde bulu\u015fuyorlard\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Dervi\u015f de profes\u00f6r de \u00e2lemle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k, olgun ve geli\u015fmeye a\u00e7\u0131k ki\u015filiklerdi. S\u00f6z\u00fcn yan\u0131nda susman\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne de h\u00e2kim olan kaliteli insanlard\u0131.<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style='margin-top:0cm;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;margin-left:0cm;line-height:normal;font-size:15px;font-family:\"Calibri\",sans-serif;'><span style='font-size:16px;font-family:\"Helvetica\",sans-serif;'>\u0130ki a\u015famal\u0131 deney s\u00fcremiz doldu\u011funda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00e2\u011f\u0131tlar\u0131 hocaya vermi\u015f ve merakla yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za ili\u015fkin de\u011ferlendirmeyi beklemi\u015ftik. Ama sonu\u00e7lar bir sonraki derse kald\u0131! Zira hoca t\u00fcm yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 \u00f6zel bir programla kelime analizine t\u00e2bi tutacak ve bizi en \u00e7ok mutlu eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla bu s\u0131rada hissetti\u011fimiz duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6k kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 birka\u00e7 kelimeye indirgeyerek yorumlayacakt\u0131\u2026 (Devam edece\u011fiz)<\/span><\/p>","slug":"kaliteli-insan","orjinalimage":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/17149428004j0hZiSiC7TCLgs.webp","news_cover_min":"\/front\/uploads\/blog\/thumbnail\/17149428004j0hZiSiC7TCLgs.webp","news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null,"meta_keywords":null,"view_count":4743,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}