{"status":true,"post":{"id":32753,"user_id":3,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2022-10-24 21:07:33","created_at":"2022-05-05T21:00:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2022-10-24T18:07:33.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":32753,"is_featured":0,"title":"\u00c7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Sevgi denilen duygu, y\u00fcce yarat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n insano\u011fluna b\u00fcy\u00fck bir arma\u011fan\u0131d\u0131r. Bu arma\u011fan\u0131n k\u0131ymeti bilindi\u011fi s\u00fcrece insano\u011flu huzur, g\u00fcven ve istikrarla ya\u015fayabilir.<\/span>
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K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir serzeni\u015fte bulunarak s\u00f6ze sevgi \u00fczerine yol verelim. Maalesef g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde en \u00e7ok suistimal edilen hususlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda bu kutlu arma\u011fan gelir.<\/span>
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Sevgi bir \u2018dudak k\u0131p\u0131rt\u0131s\u0131\u2019 olmaktan ziyade; \u2018g\u00f6n\u00fcle indi\u011finde\u2019 insan\u0131 insan eder, insan\u0131 ihsan sahibi (iyilik sahibi) eder, insan\u0131 \u2018ihsan\u0131n muhibban\u0131\u2019 (dostu) eder. E\u011fer bu hasletler dilden g\u00f6n\u00fcle inmiyorsa, onun ad\u0131 sevgi de\u011fil, heves olur.<\/span>
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Bu kadar giri\u015ften sonra meselenin anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131n\u0131 anlatan hik\u00e2yemize ge\u00e7elim.<\/span>
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Bilgeye sorarlar:<\/span>
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-Sevginin sadece \u2018s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019 edenlerle, onu \u2018ya\u015fayanlar\u2019 aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 nas\u0131l izah edersiniz? Bilgemiz, soruyu soranlar\u0131 ak\u015fam evine davet eder, salonun ortas\u0131na bir sofra kurdurur ve soruyu soranlar\u0131 sofraya davet etmeyerek der ki:<\/span>
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-Siz sadece seyredeceksiniz, sorunuzun cevab\u0131 bu sofrada. Hele \u015f\u00f6yle geriye \u00e7ekilin ve seyreyleyin bakal\u0131m.<\/span>
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Her f\u0131rsatta sevgiden, payla\u015fmadan, dayan\u0131\u015fmadan, karde\u015flikten s\u00f6z edip de bu s\u00f6zlerini \u2018dillerinden y\u00fcreklerine indiremeyenleri\u2019 sofraya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Sofrada b\u00fcy\u00fck\u00e7e bir tencerenin i\u00e7erisinde \u00e7orba vard\u0131r. \u00c7orba sofraya gelince, konuklar\u0131n ellerine olduk\u00e7a uzun sapl\u0131 tahta ka\u015f\u0131klar verilir.<\/span>
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Sofradakiler bir \u00e7orbaya, bir ka\u015f\u0131klara bakarlar ve \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 y\u00fczlerinden okunurken bilgemiz \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in konuklar\u0131n\u0131 buyur eder.<\/span>
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Sevginin sadece laf\u0131n\u0131 edenler; peki deyip ba\u015flarlar \u00e7orbay\u0131 i\u00e7meye. Fakat o da ne? Ka\u015f\u0131klar uzun oldu\u011fundan bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc tastan \u00e7orbay\u0131 al\u0131p a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcremezler, \u00e7orbay\u0131 kendileri de\u011fil, tabla ve sofra bezi i\u00e7er. De\u011fi\u015fik yollar denedilerse de \u00e7orbay\u0131 i\u00e7meyi ba\u015faramaz ve sofradan kalkarlar.<\/span>
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Sevgiyi dilde tutanlar\u0131n sofraya d\u00f6kt\u00fckleri temizlendikten sonra bilge ki\u015fi yeni bir sofra daha kurdurur, yine \u00e7orba ve ayn\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcdeki ka\u015f\u0131klar gelir. Sofraya bu sefer sevgiyi dillerinden y\u00fcreklerine indirenler davet edilir.<\/span>
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G\u00f6zlerinden, dillerinden, y\u00fczlerinden, velhas\u0131l her hallerinden sevgi akan, sevgiyi y\u00fcreklerine bek\u00e7i edenler; nezaket ve zarafet i\u00e7erisinde gelip sofradaki yerlerini al\u0131r ve bilgenin; \u2018buyurun\u2019 davetiyle \u00e7orba i\u00e7ilmeye ba\u015flan\u0131r.<\/span>
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Sevgi fedaileri, ka\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 ellerine al\u0131r, \u00e7orba tas\u0131na dald\u0131r\u0131r, \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131klar\u0131na al\u0131r ve kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda oturan arkada\u015flar\u0131na i\u00e7irirler. <\/span>
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B\u00f6ylece birbirlerine \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7irmi\u015f olurlar. Sevgiyi konu\u015fanlar\u0131n de\u011fil, ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n muhafaza etti\u011fi b\u00f6ylece anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/span>
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Mideler doyunca zihinlerin de doymas\u0131 laz\u0131m diye bilgemiz s\u00f6ze girer:<\/span>
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\u201cKim ki, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda; yaln\u0131z kendini g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve doymay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrse, o ki\u015fi ya da ki\u015filer, h\u0131rslar\u0131ndan doymak bilmez ve ba\u015flar\u0131na s\u00fcrekli musibet davet ederler.<\/span>
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Kim ki, i\u015f ve \u00f6zel hayat\u0131nda, sevgi merkezli bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyle; karde\u015fine, e\u015fine, dostuna, arkada\u015f\u0131na, kom\u015fusuna, tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlara iyi niyetle yakla\u015f\u0131p, payla\u015f\u0131r ve dayan\u0131\u015fma i\u00e7erisinde ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 giderirse, bilmelidir ki kendisinin de ihtiyac\u0131 mutlaka g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/span>
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Unutmay\u0131n! Hayat denilen bu pazar\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi sonu da var. \u0130yi sona varmak i\u00e7in iyi ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 yapmal\u0131. Bu ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar\u0131n birinci \u015fart\u0131 da sevgi arma\u011fan\u0131n\u0131 dilinizde de\u011fil, y\u00fcre\u011finizde ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r.\u201d<\/span>
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K\u0131sacas\u0131, hayat \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u2018alan de\u011fil, veren\u2019 kazan\u00e7l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar. Sofraya birinci oturanlar hep kendilerine almak istediler ve doymadan kalkt\u0131lar. Di\u011ferleri ise kendileri almak yerine birbirlerine vererek doyarak kalkt\u0131lar.<\/span>
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S\u00f6z\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yine bilgemize b\u0131rakal\u0131m: \u201cG\u00f6nl\u00fcnde k\u0131\u015f olan\u0131n, kalbinde haset olan\u0131n, g\u00f6z\u00fcnde h\u0131rs olan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fcne bahar gelmez. En b\u00fcy\u00fck sermayemiz; insan\u0131 insan eden, insan\u0131 birbirine karde\u015f eden sevgi arma\u011fan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fatabilmektir.\u201d<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"corba-ile-sevgi-imtihani","tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u00c7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1114,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":3,"name":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N","surname":"\u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","email":"ada.tokatlioglu@turk.net","slug":"huseyin-ozturk","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/1733691600d1camTRk8GL2Xc5.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T14:51:11.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":32852,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":32753,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"\u00c7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Sevgi denilen duygu, y\u00fcce yarat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n insano\u011fluna b\u00fcy\u00fck bir arma\u011fan\u0131d\u0131r. Bu arma\u011fan\u0131n k\u0131ymeti bilindi\u011fi s\u00fcrece insano\u011flu huzur, g\u00fcven ve istikrarla ya\u015fayabilir.<\/span>
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K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir serzeni\u015fte bulunarak s\u00f6ze sevgi \u00fczerine yol verelim. Maalesef g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde en \u00e7ok suistimal edilen hususlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda bu kutlu arma\u011fan gelir.<\/span>
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Sevgi bir \u2018dudak k\u0131p\u0131rt\u0131s\u0131\u2019 olmaktan ziyade; \u2018g\u00f6n\u00fcle indi\u011finde\u2019 insan\u0131 insan eder, insan\u0131 ihsan sahibi (iyilik sahibi) eder, insan\u0131 \u2018ihsan\u0131n muhibban\u0131\u2019 (dostu) eder. E\u011fer bu hasletler dilden g\u00f6n\u00fcle inmiyorsa, onun ad\u0131 sevgi de\u011fil, heves olur.<\/span>
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Bu kadar giri\u015ften sonra meselenin anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131n\u0131 anlatan hik\u00e2yemize ge\u00e7elim.<\/span>
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Bilgeye sorarlar:<\/span>
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-Sevginin sadece \u2018s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019 edenlerle, onu \u2018ya\u015fayanlar\u2019 aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 nas\u0131l izah edersiniz? Bilgemiz, soruyu soranlar\u0131 ak\u015fam evine davet eder, salonun ortas\u0131na bir sofra kurdurur ve soruyu soranlar\u0131 sofraya davet etmeyerek der ki:<\/span>
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-Siz sadece seyredeceksiniz, sorunuzun cevab\u0131 bu sofrada. Hele \u015f\u00f6yle geriye \u00e7ekilin ve seyreyleyin bakal\u0131m.<\/span>
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Her f\u0131rsatta sevgiden, payla\u015fmadan, dayan\u0131\u015fmadan, karde\u015flikten s\u00f6z edip de bu s\u00f6zlerini \u2018dillerinden y\u00fcreklerine indiremeyenleri\u2019 sofraya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Sofrada b\u00fcy\u00fck\u00e7e bir tencerenin i\u00e7erisinde \u00e7orba vard\u0131r. \u00c7orba sofraya gelince, konuklar\u0131n ellerine olduk\u00e7a uzun sapl\u0131 tahta ka\u015f\u0131klar verilir.<\/span>
<\/span>
Sofradakiler bir \u00e7orbaya, bir ka\u015f\u0131klara bakarlar ve \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 y\u00fczlerinden okunurken bilgemiz \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in konuklar\u0131n\u0131 buyur eder.<\/span>
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Sevginin sadece laf\u0131n\u0131 edenler; peki deyip ba\u015flarlar \u00e7orbay\u0131 i\u00e7meye. Fakat o da ne? Ka\u015f\u0131klar uzun oldu\u011fundan bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc tastan \u00e7orbay\u0131 al\u0131p a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcremezler, \u00e7orbay\u0131 kendileri de\u011fil, tabla ve sofra bezi i\u00e7er. De\u011fi\u015fik yollar denedilerse de \u00e7orbay\u0131 i\u00e7meyi ba\u015faramaz ve sofradan kalkarlar.<\/span>
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***<\/span>
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Sevgiyi dilde tutanlar\u0131n sofraya d\u00f6kt\u00fckleri temizlendikten sonra bilge ki\u015fi yeni bir sofra daha kurdurur, yine \u00e7orba ve ayn\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcdeki ka\u015f\u0131klar gelir. Sofraya bu sefer sevgiyi dillerinden y\u00fcreklerine indirenler davet edilir.<\/span>
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G\u00f6zlerinden, dillerinden, y\u00fczlerinden, velhas\u0131l her hallerinden sevgi akan, sevgiyi y\u00fcreklerine bek\u00e7i edenler; nezaket ve zarafet i\u00e7erisinde gelip sofradaki yerlerini al\u0131r ve bilgenin; \u2018buyurun\u2019 davetiyle \u00e7orba i\u00e7ilmeye ba\u015flan\u0131r.<\/span>
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Sevgi fedaileri, ka\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 ellerine al\u0131r, \u00e7orba tas\u0131na dald\u0131r\u0131r, \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131klar\u0131na al\u0131r ve kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda oturan arkada\u015flar\u0131na i\u00e7irirler. <\/span>
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B\u00f6ylece birbirlerine \u00e7orbalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7irmi\u015f olurlar. Sevgiyi konu\u015fanlar\u0131n de\u011fil, ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n muhafaza etti\u011fi b\u00f6ylece anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/span>
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Mideler doyunca zihinlerin de doymas\u0131 laz\u0131m diye bilgemiz s\u00f6ze girer:<\/span>
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\u201cKim ki, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda; yaln\u0131z kendini g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve doymay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrse, o ki\u015fi ya da ki\u015filer, h\u0131rslar\u0131ndan doymak bilmez ve ba\u015flar\u0131na s\u00fcrekli musibet davet ederler.<\/span>
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Kim ki, i\u015f ve \u00f6zel hayat\u0131nda, sevgi merkezli bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyle; karde\u015fine, e\u015fine, dostuna, arkada\u015f\u0131na, kom\u015fusuna, tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlara iyi niyetle yakla\u015f\u0131p, payla\u015f\u0131r ve dayan\u0131\u015fma i\u00e7erisinde ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 giderirse, bilmelidir ki kendisinin de ihtiyac\u0131 mutlaka g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/span>
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Unutmay\u0131n! Hayat denilen bu pazar\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi sonu da var. \u0130yi sona varmak i\u00e7in iyi ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 yapmal\u0131. Bu ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar\u0131n birinci \u015fart\u0131 da sevgi arma\u011fan\u0131n\u0131 dilinizde de\u011fil, y\u00fcre\u011finizde ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r.\u201d<\/span>
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K\u0131sacas\u0131, hayat \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u2018alan de\u011fil, veren\u2019 kazan\u00e7l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar. Sofraya birinci oturanlar hep kendilerine almak istediler ve doymadan kalkt\u0131lar. Di\u011ferleri ise kendileri almak yerine birbirlerine vererek doyarak kalkt\u0131lar.<\/span>
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S\u00f6z\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yine bilgemize b\u0131rakal\u0131m: \u201cG\u00f6nl\u00fcnde k\u0131\u015f olan\u0131n, kalbinde haset olan\u0131n, g\u00f6z\u00fcnde h\u0131rs olan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fcne bahar gelmez. En b\u00fcy\u00fck sermayemiz; insan\u0131 insan eden, insan\u0131 birbirine karde\u015f eden sevgi arma\u011fan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fatabilmektir.\u201d<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"corba-ile-sevgi-imtihani","orjinalimage":null,"news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u00c7orba ile sevgi imtihan\u0131","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","view_count":1114,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}