{"status":true,"post":{"id":29406,"user_id":3,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2022-10-24 16:02:18","created_at":"2021-11-11T21:00:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2022-10-24T13:02:18.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":29406,"is_featured":0,"title":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda k\u00f6r noktalar","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Asl\u0131nda sadece \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda de\u011fil, ticari ili\u015fkilerde, e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretimde, ailede ve insano\u011flunun hareket etti\u011fi her alanda k\u00f6r noktalar vard\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n en sevilen taraf\u0131, elbet \u00fcretmektir. Hi\u00e7bir \u00fcretimin tek ki\u015filik bir \u00e7abayla meydana gelmeyece\u011fi hepimizin malumudur. \u201cBir elin nesi var, iki elin sesi var\u201d diyenler, bo\u015fa s\u00f6ylememi\u015flerdir.<\/span>
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\u0130ki ki\u015fiyle yap\u0131lan i\u015fler bile ekip ruhu ister. Ekip ruhunun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 i\u015flemesi i\u00e7in elbet i\u015f ve ileti\u015fim kazalar\u0131n\u0131 en aza indirmek gerekir. <\/span>
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Ekip ruhunun aynas\u0131, i\u015flerin kalitesidir.<\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda kazalara sebep olan \u00fc\u00e7 nokta vard\u0131r. Bunlar; \u2018k\u00f6r noktalar\u2019, \u2018sakl\u0131 noktalar\u2019 ve \u2018bilinmeyen noktalar.\u2019 Bu noktalar ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcddet\u00e7e i\u015fte ve ileti\u015fimde aksakl\u0131klar olacakt\u0131r. \u2018Sakl\u0131 noktalar\u2019 ile \u2018bilinmeyen noktalar\u2019\u0131 do\u011furan ana arter ise \u2018k\u00f6r noktalar\u2019d\u0131r. G\u00f6rebildi\u011fimiz kadar\u0131yla bu noktadan y\u00fcr\u00fcyelim.<\/span>
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Bir kimsenin kendisinden kaynakl\u0131 k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 bulabilmesi ve tespit edebilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikli olarak ki\u015fi kendisini tan\u0131mal\u0131 ve farkl\u0131 karakterlere b\u00fcr\u00fcnmeden, g\u00fcc\u00fc ve becerisi nispetinde i\u015f ve ileti\u015fimini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmeli. \u0130lk k\u00f6r nokta ile tespite ba\u015flayal\u0131m.<\/span>
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\u0130nsanlar bazen beceriksizliklerinin ve ileti\u015fimsizliklerinin \u00fczerini \u00f6rtmek i\u00e7in garip bir g\u00fc\u00e7 g\u00f6sterisine b\u00fcr\u00fcnerek; \u201cBen buyum\u201d gibi mesnetsiz savunmaya ge\u00e7erler. Oysa bu savunma, ki\u015finin kendisini yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131 ve ekip ruhunu reddetmesi anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M\u0130N Y\u00dcZDE 60\u2019I BEDEN D\u0130L\u0130YLE<\/strong><\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma veya di\u011fer ya\u015fam alanlar\u0131ndaki problemlerin, aksakl\u0131klar\u0131n ve anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n sebebine dair k\u00f6r noktalardan biri de ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011fumuz insanlar\u0131n kimi zaman s\u00f6z\u00fcne, kimi zaman sesine, kimi vakit beden diline bakarak; zihnimizde meydana getirdi\u011fi mesaja ve anlama g\u00f6re tav\u0131r al\u0131p, o tavr\u0131m\u0131zla cevap vermemizdir.<\/span>
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Bu hususta \u015fu bilgiyi payla\u015fal\u0131m:<\/span>
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Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimlerdeki meram\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc \u2018y\u00fczde 20 sesimizle\u2019, \u2018y\u00fczde 20 kelimelerimizle\u2019, \u2018y\u00fczde 60 da beden dilimizle\u2019 anlat\u0131r\u0131z. Hal b\u00f6yle olunca bozuk bir beden diliyle s\u00f6zlerimizin ve sesimizin kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakine tesir etmeyece\u011fi meydandad\u0131r.<\/span>
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Tabii bunlar\u0131 d\u00fczeltti\u011fimizde mesele tamam olur mu? Hay\u0131r! Birbirimizi anlamam\u0131z i\u00e7in fiziki ortam da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/span>
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Mesela fiziki ortamlar, ki\u015fiye mahsus e\u015fyalarla daralt\u0131lmamal\u0131. Bu durum \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ve ileti\u015fimi zay\u0131flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r, anlamay\u0131, anlatmay\u0131 dikkati da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r.<\/span>
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Yine fiziki ortam\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fc veya \u00e7evreden yay\u0131lan g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcler, ileti\u015fimsizliklere sebep olur. Ayr\u0131ca \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve sosyal stat\u00fcleri, ekonomik seviyeleri, yeme-i\u00e7me, k\u0131l\u0131k-k\u0131yafet gibi kurum aidiyetine ve disiplinine uymayan hal ve hareketler, k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n s\u00fcrekli \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131na neden olur. Neticesi, ge\u00e7imsizlik ve ho\u015fnutsuzluk olarak yans\u0131r.<\/span>
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K\u00d6R NOKTALARIN AYDINLATILMASI \u0130\u00c7\u0130N<\/strong><\/span>
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K\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131ran esaslardan biri; \u201cBen biliyorum\u201d, \u201cBen buyum\u201d, \u201cBen b\u00f6yleyim\u201d inad\u0131 ve inanc\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsano\u011flu zor oldu\u011fu kadar kolayd\u0131r da asl\u0131nda. Zor olan\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak insana mahsus bir haslettir. Bu inad\u0131 y\u0131kman\u0131n yolu \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r.<\/span>
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Muhatab\u0131m\u0131za s\u00f6ylemek istediklerimizin \u00f6n\u00fcne samimi iltifat c\u00fcmleleriyle birlikte onu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yahut anlayabilece\u011fimizi ifade etti\u011fimizde, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin s\u00f6z\u00fc de sesi de beden dili de de\u011fi\u015fecektir. <\/span>
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K\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in samimi iltifat ve ilgi, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir enerjidir ve buna hepimizin ihtiyac\u0131 var. K\u00f6r noktalar ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmazsa, neyi nas\u0131l g\u00f6rmek veya anlamak istiyorsak \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve anlar\u0131z. O zaman da \u2018ben gayyas\u0131\u2019ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p; \u2018biz\u2019 olamay\u0131z.<\/span>
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\u2018Ben\u2019den \u2018biz\u2019e ge\u00e7ebilmemiz ve \u2018hepimiz\u2019 olabilmemiz i\u00e7in k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 ayd\u0131nlat\u0131p, bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n iki kap\u0131l\u0131 bir han oldu\u011funu bilmek k\u00e2fidir. \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca birinden girilip, di\u011ferinden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, gelirken nas\u0131l gelmi\u015fsek, giderken de \u00f6yle gidece\u011fimizi bilirsek, yar\u0131na farkl\u0131 bir yelken a\u00e7abiliriz.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"calisma-hayatinda-kor-noktalar","tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda k\u00f6r noktalar","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1113,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":3,"name":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N","surname":"\u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","email":"ada.tokatlioglu@turk.net","slug":"huseyin-ozturk","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/1733691600d1camTRk8GL2Xc5.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T14:51:11.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":29505,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":29406,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda k\u00f6r noktalar","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":" \t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t

H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Asl\u0131nda sadece \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda de\u011fil, ticari ili\u015fkilerde, e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretimde, ailede ve insano\u011flunun hareket etti\u011fi her alanda k\u00f6r noktalar vard\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n en sevilen taraf\u0131, elbet \u00fcretmektir. Hi\u00e7bir \u00fcretimin tek ki\u015filik bir \u00e7abayla meydana gelmeyece\u011fi hepimizin malumudur. \u201cBir elin nesi var, iki elin sesi var\u201d diyenler, bo\u015fa s\u00f6ylememi\u015flerdir.<\/span>
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\u0130ki ki\u015fiyle yap\u0131lan i\u015fler bile ekip ruhu ister. Ekip ruhunun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 i\u015flemesi i\u00e7in elbet i\u015f ve ileti\u015fim kazalar\u0131n\u0131 en aza indirmek gerekir. <\/span>
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Ekip ruhunun aynas\u0131, i\u015flerin kalitesidir.<\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda kazalara sebep olan \u00fc\u00e7 nokta vard\u0131r. Bunlar; \u2018k\u00f6r noktalar\u2019, \u2018sakl\u0131 noktalar\u2019 ve \u2018bilinmeyen noktalar.\u2019 Bu noktalar ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcddet\u00e7e i\u015fte ve ileti\u015fimde aksakl\u0131klar olacakt\u0131r. \u2018Sakl\u0131 noktalar\u2019 ile \u2018bilinmeyen noktalar\u2019\u0131 do\u011furan ana arter ise \u2018k\u00f6r noktalar\u2019d\u0131r. G\u00f6rebildi\u011fimiz kadar\u0131yla bu noktadan y\u00fcr\u00fcyelim.<\/span>
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Bir kimsenin kendisinden kaynakl\u0131 k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 bulabilmesi ve tespit edebilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikli olarak ki\u015fi kendisini tan\u0131mal\u0131 ve farkl\u0131 karakterlere b\u00fcr\u00fcnmeden, g\u00fcc\u00fc ve becerisi nispetinde i\u015f ve ileti\u015fimini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmeli. \u0130lk k\u00f6r nokta ile tespite ba\u015flayal\u0131m.<\/span>
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\u0130nsanlar bazen beceriksizliklerinin ve ileti\u015fimsizliklerinin \u00fczerini \u00f6rtmek i\u00e7in garip bir g\u00fc\u00e7 g\u00f6sterisine b\u00fcr\u00fcnerek; \u201cBen buyum\u201d gibi mesnetsiz savunmaya ge\u00e7erler. Oysa bu savunma, ki\u015finin kendisini yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131 ve ekip ruhunu reddetmesi anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/span>
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\u0130LET\u0130\u015e\u0130M\u0130N Y\u00dcZDE 60\u2019I BEDEN D\u0130L\u0130YLE<\/strong><\/span>
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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma veya di\u011fer ya\u015fam alanlar\u0131ndaki problemlerin, aksakl\u0131klar\u0131n ve anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n sebebine dair k\u00f6r noktalardan biri de ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011fumuz insanlar\u0131n kimi zaman s\u00f6z\u00fcne, kimi zaman sesine, kimi vakit beden diline bakarak; zihnimizde meydana getirdi\u011fi mesaja ve anlama g\u00f6re tav\u0131r al\u0131p, o tavr\u0131m\u0131zla cevap vermemizdir.<\/span>
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Bu hususta \u015fu bilgiyi payla\u015fal\u0131m:<\/span>
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Y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimlerdeki meram\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc \u2018y\u00fczde 20 sesimizle\u2019, \u2018y\u00fczde 20 kelimelerimizle\u2019, \u2018y\u00fczde 60 da beden dilimizle\u2019 anlat\u0131r\u0131z. Hal b\u00f6yle olunca bozuk bir beden diliyle s\u00f6zlerimizin ve sesimizin kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakine tesir etmeyece\u011fi meydandad\u0131r.<\/span>
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Tabii bunlar\u0131 d\u00fczeltti\u011fimizde mesele tamam olur mu? Hay\u0131r! Birbirimizi anlamam\u0131z i\u00e7in fiziki ortam da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/span>
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Mesela fiziki ortamlar, ki\u015fiye mahsus e\u015fyalarla daralt\u0131lmamal\u0131. Bu durum \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ve ileti\u015fimi zay\u0131flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r, anlamay\u0131, anlatmay\u0131 dikkati da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r.<\/span>
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Yine fiziki ortam\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fc veya \u00e7evreden yay\u0131lan g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcler, ileti\u015fimsizliklere sebep olur. Ayr\u0131ca \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve sosyal stat\u00fcleri, ekonomik seviyeleri, yeme-i\u00e7me, k\u0131l\u0131k-k\u0131yafet gibi kurum aidiyetine ve disiplinine uymayan hal ve hareketler, k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n s\u00fcrekli \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131na neden olur. Neticesi, ge\u00e7imsizlik ve ho\u015fnutsuzluk olarak yans\u0131r.<\/span>
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K\u00d6R NOKTALARIN AYDINLATILMASI \u0130\u00c7\u0130N<\/strong><\/span>
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K\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131ran esaslardan biri; \u201cBen biliyorum\u201d, \u201cBen buyum\u201d, \u201cBen b\u00f6yleyim\u201d inad\u0131 ve inanc\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsano\u011flu zor oldu\u011fu kadar kolayd\u0131r da asl\u0131nda. Zor olan\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak insana mahsus bir haslettir. Bu inad\u0131 y\u0131kman\u0131n yolu \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r.<\/span>
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Muhatab\u0131m\u0131za s\u00f6ylemek istediklerimizin \u00f6n\u00fcne samimi iltifat c\u00fcmleleriyle birlikte onu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yahut anlayabilece\u011fimizi ifade etti\u011fimizde, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin s\u00f6z\u00fc de sesi de beden dili de de\u011fi\u015fecektir. <\/span>
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K\u00f6r noktalar\u0131n ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in samimi iltifat ve ilgi, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir enerjidir ve buna hepimizin ihtiyac\u0131 var. K\u00f6r noktalar ayd\u0131nlat\u0131lmazsa, neyi nas\u0131l g\u00f6rmek veya anlamak istiyorsak \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve anlar\u0131z. O zaman da \u2018ben gayyas\u0131\u2019ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p; \u2018biz\u2019 olamay\u0131z.<\/span>
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\u2018Ben\u2019den \u2018biz\u2019e ge\u00e7ebilmemiz ve \u2018hepimiz\u2019 olabilmemiz i\u00e7in k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131 ayd\u0131nlat\u0131p, bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n iki kap\u0131l\u0131 bir han oldu\u011funu bilmek k\u00e2fidir. \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi boyunca birinden girilip, di\u011ferinden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, gelirken nas\u0131l gelmi\u015fsek, giderken de \u00f6yle gidece\u011fimizi bilirsek, yar\u0131na farkl\u0131 bir yelken a\u00e7abiliriz.<\/span><\/p> \t\t\t\t","slug":"calisma-hayatinda-kor-noktalar","orjinalimage":null,"news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda k\u00f6r noktalar","meta_description":"H\u00dcSEY\u0130N \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","view_count":1113,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}