{"status":true,"post":{"id":30894,"user_id":6,"status":1,"type":1,"orde":null,"notification_type":3,"static_post":0,"published_at":"2022-10-24 16:37:47","created_at":"2022-01-27T21:00:00.000000Z","updated_at":"2022-10-24T13:37:47.000000Z","edited_at":"2024-12-17 22:35:21","source_id":null,"post_id":30894,"is_featured":0,"title":"\u2018Ailenin patronu gibi\u2019","slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"category_id":73,"description":null,"content":"  \t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t\t<p><span class=\"large\"><strong>DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong><\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Y\u0131llar evvel tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131n, Covid-19\u2019dan vefat etti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenince i\u00e7imde bir s\u0131z\u0131 hissettim. O vakit aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131 hik\u00e2yesi canland\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcmde. O\u011flundan dolay\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na gelenleri g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015fl\u0131 \u015fekilde anlat\u0131rken, \u201cHocam bunlar\u0131 yaz\u0131n, insanlar benim d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm hataya d\u00fc\u015fmesin\u201d diye \u0131srar etmi\u015fti. M\u00fcsaadenizle bir aile \u015firketi kurucu liderinin ders al\u0131nacak hayat \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, kendi a\u011fz\u0131ndan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z notlardan aktar\u0131yorum:<\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u201c\u2026D\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin evlad\u0131y\u0131m. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u00dc\u00e7 ablamla \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklar i\u00e7inde yeti\u015ftik. Ama hedeflerimiz vard\u0131, heyecanla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorduk ve huzurluyduk. \u015eimdi bak\u0131yorum \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma, torunlar\u0131ma\u2026 Hayat \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f. Biz, yoklu\u011fun yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi insanlard\u0131k ve bu yoklu\u011fun i\u00e7inde mutluyduk. \u015eimdi ise varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde mutsuzuz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131, t\u00fcketim yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7iyor. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Ailem \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelince ilkokuldan sonra okula gidemedim. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmam gerekiyordu ve yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015f kalmad\u0131. Sultanahmet, Laleli, Emin\u00f6n\u00fc\u2026 Hepsini kar\u0131\u015f kar\u0131\u015f bilirim. Sirkeci meydan\u0131nda balon, cami \u00f6n\u00fcnde ku\u015f yemi, Kapal\u0131 \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131\u2019da simit, Beyaz\u0131t Meydan\u0131 ve Sahaflar \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131s\u0131\u2019nda k\u0131rtasiye malzemeleri satt\u0131m. \u00dcniversite \u00f6\u011frencilerinin ders notlar\u0131n\u0131, teksirle \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r ve onlara satard\u0131m. Fotokopi makinalar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131nca toplu fotokopi i\u015fleri yapt\u0131m. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> 16 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken \u00fc\u00e7 tekerlekli ilk pazar arabam\u0131 alarak k\u0131rtasiye \u00fcr\u00fcnlerini bir araya getirdim ve s\u00fcrekli dola\u015farak sat\u0131\u015flar yapt\u0131m. Teksir ve fotokopi i\u015flerine de devam ettim. Kazanc\u0131m\u0131 biriktirerek daire ald\u0131m, ya\u015flanmaya ba\u015flayan annem, babam ve ablalar\u0131m rahat etti. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong>\u00c7OCUKLARI \u0130HMAL ETT\u0130M<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Askerden sonra ilk k\u0131rtasiye d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. Gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum ve i\u015flerim h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Annemin ve babam\u0131n duas\u0131 g\u00f6lge gibi hep \u00fczerimdeydi. K\u0131z karde\u015flerim yolumu g\u00f6zlerdi, \u00e7ok mutlu bir aileydik. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Zamanla ablalar\u0131m evlendi, kendi ellerimle d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerini yapt\u0131m. Annemin tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim e\u015fimle yuva kurduk. \u00d6nce annem, sonra babam rahmetli oldu. \u0130\u015flerimiz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Alt\u0131 k\u0131rtasiye d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131ndan sonra iki matbaa makinas\u0131 ald\u0131m ve bask\u0131 i\u015fine girdim. Y\u0131llarca her t\u00fcrl\u00fc yay\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131k. Yeni fabrika binas\u0131nda toptan k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t i\u015fine de girdik ve y\u00fczlerce \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131m\u0131z oldu. Bu arada \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ihmal ettim, yeti\u015fmelerini izleyemedim, denetleyemedim. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fum var. B\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flum, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan beri farkl\u0131yd\u0131, oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 asla payla\u015fmazd\u0131, rahat\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fc ve harcamay\u0131 severdi. Yan\u0131mda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eu anda i\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131nda. \u0130kinci o\u011flum daha tutuktu ama okudu, i\u015fletme mezunu. O da muhasebemizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fkan, hak ve adalet bilinci var. Ben onunla ayaktay\u0131m. Bask\u0131n bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip olan a\u011fabeyinin etkisinde kal\u0131yor \u00e7o\u011fu zaman. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u015eirketin t\u00fcm hisseleri bana aitken b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flum, y\u0131llar \u00f6nce \u00e7ok \u0131srar etti ve ben seninle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, fark\u0131m olmal\u0131 diyerek pay istedi. Zorland\u0131m ama kendisine y\u00fczde 20 hisse verdim. Ben 66 ya\u015f\u0131nda i\u015fe daha az gitmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca tekrar hisse istedi. Olmaz dedim, i\u015fi a\u011f\u0131rdan almaya ve zarar vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Y\u00fczde 20 hisse daha vermek zorunda kald\u0131m. Zamanla kendisi, e\u015fi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fti. \u00c7ok pahal\u0131 bir eve ge\u00e7ti, durmadan araba de\u011fi\u015ftirdi, e\u015fini ge\u00e7tim, ya\u015f\u0131 gelmeyen \u00e7ocu\u011funa araba ald\u0131. Ailenin patronu gibi davrand\u0131. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong>BABA \u00d6L\u00dcNCE NE OLDU?<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Ben iki ameliyat ge\u00e7irip i\u015ften biraz daha uzakla\u015f\u0131nca imzam\u0131 taklit ederek krediler \u00e7ekmi\u015f. Ve ciddi bir bor\u00e7 i\u00e7indeyiz. Huzurumuz yok. Beni dinlemiyor, STK\u2019larda boy g\u00f6sterdi\u011finden i\u015fi ihmal ediyor, yok sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131 karde\u015fine yetki vermiyor. Art\u0131k konu\u015fmaktan, ba\u011f\u0131rmaktan, kavga etmekten yoruldum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc konu ne olursa olsun kendini hep en hakl\u0131, en bilgili ve en \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/p>  <p><span class=\"large\">Avukat\u0131mla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm, hisse \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fum var, o\u011flumu uzakla\u015ft\u0131rabilirim ama iki y\u0131l \u00f6nce e\u015fim \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra m\u00fccadele azmim kalmad\u0131. Evlad\u0131yla imtihan olmak bu olsa gerek. \u015eimdi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum da zaten bencil olan evlad\u0131ma ke\u015fke zaman\u0131ndan \u00f6nce hisse vererek \u015f\u0131martmasayd\u0131m yahut di\u011ferlerine de hisse verseydim ve kurumsalla\u015fma \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131yla anayasa haz\u0131rlay\u0131p bir ki\u015finin de\u011fil, kurallar\u0131n egemenli\u011fini yerle\u015ftirseydim. Ke\u015fke bu \u00e7ocu\u011fa daha fazla zaman ay\u0131rsayd\u0131m. \u0130\u015f bilgisi kadar ahlak\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, gelene\u011fi, ailenin de\u011ferini, paran\u0131n her \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretebilseydim.\u201d<\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Kurucu baban\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan sonra ne mi oldu? Kendisini \u015firketin yeg\u00e2ne sahibi g\u00f6ren a\u011fabey, \u00f6len babas\u0131n\u0131n veraset intikalinden sonra \u00e7o\u011funluk hissenin sahibi oldu. \u00c7e\u015fitli oyunlarla k\u0131z karde\u015fine iki daire vererek hissesini sat\u0131n ald\u0131. S\u00fcrekli didi\u015fti\u011fi erkek karde\u015fini ayr\u0131lma noktas\u0131na getirdi ve herhangi bir de\u011ferleme yapmadan baz\u0131 gayrimenkuller ve bir depo vererek onu da ay\u0131rd\u0131. <\/span><\/p>  <p><span class=\"large\">Ve son durum: A\u011fabeyin madde ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olan evlad\u0131, ba\u015fta babas\u0131 olmak \u00fczere aileye \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zararlar verdi. Bor\u00e7lar\u0131 \u00f6denemez hale gelen i\u015fletmeyi a\u011fabey tasfiye etti. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck deposunda ithal ka\u011f\u0131t i\u015fini geli\u015ftiren k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015f ise i\u015fini b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc. Ye\u011feninin sa\u011fl\u0131k masraflar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlendi. Ve a\u011fabeyinin, i\u015fini tekrar canland\u0131rmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ona yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/p>  \t\t\t\t","slug":"ailenin-patronu-gibi","tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u2018Ailenin patronu gibi\u2019","meta_description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"view_count":1126,"cropped_1200x675":null,"user":{"id":6,"name":"\u0130LHAM\u0130","surname":"FINDIK\u00c7I","email":"kerem49@gonultas.org","slug":"dr-ilhami-findikci","avatar":"\/front\/uploads\/avatar\/17336916007TlCwM70HUjW9XY.webp","status":1,"role":1,"email_verified_at":null,"orde":null,"created_at":"2022-09-15T09:39:41.000000Z","updated_at":"2024-12-18T10:21:29.000000Z","seo_title":null,"seo_description":null},"translations":[{"id":30993,"is_featured":0,"is_amp":0,"is_ads":0,"ads_link":null,"post_id":30894,"locale":"tr","category_id":73,"title":"\u2018Ailenin patronu gibi\u2019","home_title":null,"sub_title":null,"slider_title":null,"slider_title_2":null,"slider_spot_title":null,"slider_spot_title_2":null,"subtitleuse":0,"description":null,"content":"  \t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t\t<p><span class=\"large\"><strong>DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong><\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Y\u0131llar evvel tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131n, Covid-19\u2019dan vefat etti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenince i\u00e7imde bir s\u0131z\u0131 hissettim. O vakit aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131 hik\u00e2yesi canland\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcmde. O\u011flundan dolay\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na gelenleri g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015fl\u0131 \u015fekilde anlat\u0131rken, \u201cHocam bunlar\u0131 yaz\u0131n, insanlar benim d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm hataya d\u00fc\u015fmesin\u201d diye \u0131srar etmi\u015fti. M\u00fcsaadenizle bir aile \u015firketi kurucu liderinin ders al\u0131nacak hayat \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, kendi a\u011fz\u0131ndan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z notlardan aktar\u0131yorum:<\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u201c\u2026D\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin evlad\u0131y\u0131m. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u00dc\u00e7 ablamla \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklar i\u00e7inde yeti\u015ftik. Ama hedeflerimiz vard\u0131, heyecanla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorduk ve huzurluyduk. \u015eimdi bak\u0131yorum \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma, torunlar\u0131ma\u2026 Hayat \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f. Biz, yoklu\u011fun yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi insanlard\u0131k ve bu yoklu\u011fun i\u00e7inde mutluyduk. \u015eimdi ise varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde mutsuzuz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131, t\u00fcketim yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7iyor. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Ailem \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelince ilkokuldan sonra okula gidemedim. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmam gerekiyordu ve yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015f kalmad\u0131. Sultanahmet, Laleli, Emin\u00f6n\u00fc\u2026 Hepsini kar\u0131\u015f kar\u0131\u015f bilirim. Sirkeci meydan\u0131nda balon, cami \u00f6n\u00fcnde ku\u015f yemi, Kapal\u0131 \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131\u2019da simit, Beyaz\u0131t Meydan\u0131 ve Sahaflar \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131s\u0131\u2019nda k\u0131rtasiye malzemeleri satt\u0131m. \u00dcniversite \u00f6\u011frencilerinin ders notlar\u0131n\u0131, teksirle \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r ve onlara satard\u0131m. Fotokopi makinalar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131nca toplu fotokopi i\u015fleri yapt\u0131m. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> 16 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken \u00fc\u00e7 tekerlekli ilk pazar arabam\u0131 alarak k\u0131rtasiye \u00fcr\u00fcnlerini bir araya getirdim ve s\u00fcrekli dola\u015farak sat\u0131\u015flar yapt\u0131m. Teksir ve fotokopi i\u015flerine de devam ettim. Kazanc\u0131m\u0131 biriktirerek daire ald\u0131m, ya\u015flanmaya ba\u015flayan annem, babam ve ablalar\u0131m rahat etti. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong>\u00c7OCUKLARI \u0130HMAL ETT\u0130M<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Askerden sonra ilk k\u0131rtasiye d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. Gece g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum ve i\u015flerim h\u0131zla b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Annemin ve babam\u0131n duas\u0131 g\u00f6lge gibi hep \u00fczerimdeydi. K\u0131z karde\u015flerim yolumu g\u00f6zlerdi, \u00e7ok mutlu bir aileydik. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Zamanla ablalar\u0131m evlendi, kendi ellerimle d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerini yapt\u0131m. Annemin tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim e\u015fimle yuva kurduk. \u00d6nce annem, sonra babam rahmetli oldu. \u0130\u015flerimiz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Alt\u0131 k\u0131rtasiye d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131ndan sonra iki matbaa makinas\u0131 ald\u0131m ve bask\u0131 i\u015fine girdim. Y\u0131llarca her t\u00fcrl\u00fc yay\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131k. Yeni fabrika binas\u0131nda toptan k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t i\u015fine de girdik ve y\u00fczlerce \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131m\u0131z oldu. Bu arada \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ihmal ettim, yeti\u015fmelerini izleyemedim, denetleyemedim. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fum var. B\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flum, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan beri farkl\u0131yd\u0131, oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 asla payla\u015fmazd\u0131, rahat\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fc ve harcamay\u0131 severdi. Yan\u0131mda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eu anda i\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131nda. \u0130kinci o\u011flum daha tutuktu ama okudu, i\u015fletme mezunu. O da muhasebemizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fkan, hak ve adalet bilinci var. Ben onunla ayaktay\u0131m. Bask\u0131n bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip olan a\u011fabeyinin etkisinde kal\u0131yor \u00e7o\u011fu zaman. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> \u015eirketin t\u00fcm hisseleri bana aitken b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flum, y\u0131llar \u00f6nce \u00e7ok \u0131srar etti ve ben seninle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, fark\u0131m olmal\u0131 diyerek pay istedi. Zorland\u0131m ama kendisine y\u00fczde 20 hisse verdim. Ben 66 ya\u015f\u0131nda i\u015fe daha az gitmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca tekrar hisse istedi. Olmaz dedim, i\u015fi a\u011f\u0131rdan almaya ve zarar vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Y\u00fczde 20 hisse daha vermek zorunda kald\u0131m. Zamanla kendisi, e\u015fi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fti. \u00c7ok pahal\u0131 bir eve ge\u00e7ti, durmadan araba de\u011fi\u015ftirdi, e\u015fini ge\u00e7tim, ya\u015f\u0131 gelmeyen \u00e7ocu\u011funa araba ald\u0131. Ailenin patronu gibi davrand\u0131. <\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> <strong>BABA \u00d6L\u00dcNCE NE OLDU?<\/strong><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Ben iki ameliyat ge\u00e7irip i\u015ften biraz daha uzakla\u015f\u0131nca imzam\u0131 taklit ederek krediler \u00e7ekmi\u015f. Ve ciddi bir bor\u00e7 i\u00e7indeyiz. Huzurumuz yok. Beni dinlemiyor, STK\u2019larda boy g\u00f6sterdi\u011finden i\u015fi ihmal ediyor, yok sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131 karde\u015fine yetki vermiyor. Art\u0131k konu\u015fmaktan, ba\u011f\u0131rmaktan, kavga etmekten yoruldum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc konu ne olursa olsun kendini hep en hakl\u0131, en bilgili ve en \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/p>  <p><span class=\"large\">Avukat\u0131mla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm, hisse \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fum var, o\u011flumu uzakla\u015ft\u0131rabilirim ama iki y\u0131l \u00f6nce e\u015fim \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra m\u00fccadele azmim kalmad\u0131. Evlad\u0131yla imtihan olmak bu olsa gerek. \u015eimdi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum da zaten bencil olan evlad\u0131ma ke\u015fke zaman\u0131ndan \u00f6nce hisse vererek \u015f\u0131martmasayd\u0131m yahut di\u011ferlerine de hisse verseydim ve kurumsalla\u015fma \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131yla anayasa haz\u0131rlay\u0131p bir ki\u015finin de\u011fil, kurallar\u0131n egemenli\u011fini yerle\u015ftirseydim. Ke\u015fke bu \u00e7ocu\u011fa daha fazla zaman ay\u0131rsayd\u0131m. \u0130\u015f bilgisi kadar ahlak\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, gelene\u011fi, ailenin de\u011ferini, paran\u0131n her \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretebilseydim.\u201d<\/span><br><span class=\"large\"><\/span><br><span class=\"large\"> Kurucu baban\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan sonra ne mi oldu? Kendisini \u015firketin yeg\u00e2ne sahibi g\u00f6ren a\u011fabey, \u00f6len babas\u0131n\u0131n veraset intikalinden sonra \u00e7o\u011funluk hissenin sahibi oldu. \u00c7e\u015fitli oyunlarla k\u0131z karde\u015fine iki daire vererek hissesini sat\u0131n ald\u0131. S\u00fcrekli didi\u015fti\u011fi erkek karde\u015fini ayr\u0131lma noktas\u0131na getirdi ve herhangi bir de\u011ferleme yapmadan baz\u0131 gayrimenkuller ve bir depo vererek onu da ay\u0131rd\u0131. <\/span><\/p>  <p><span class=\"large\">Ve son durum: A\u011fabeyin madde ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olan evlad\u0131, ba\u015fta babas\u0131 olmak \u00fczere aileye \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zararlar verdi. Bor\u00e7lar\u0131 \u00f6denemez hale gelen i\u015fletmeyi a\u011fabey tasfiye etti. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck deposunda ithal ka\u011f\u0131t i\u015fini geli\u015ftiren k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015f ise i\u015fini b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc. Ye\u011feninin sa\u011fl\u0131k masraflar\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlendi. Ve a\u011fabeyinin, i\u015fini tekrar canland\u0131rmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ona yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/p>  \t\t\t\t","slug":"ailenin-patronu-gibi","orjinalimage":null,"news_cover_min":null,"news_cover":null,"news_video_min":null,"news_video":null,"cropped_638x552":null,"cropped_310x208":null,"cropped_416x247":null,"cropped_197x247":null,"cropped_416x600":null,"cropped_1200x675":null,"tags":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","meta_title":"\u2018Ailenin patronu gibi\u2019","meta_description":"DR. \u0130LHAM\u0130 FINDIK\u00c7I","meta_keywords":"K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131","view_count":1126,"yt":0,"ytid":"","ytimage":null,"imgdate":"2000-01-01 00:00:00","cuff_cover":null,"cropped_358x214":null,"cropped_842x474":null}]}}